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Lessons learned in an unexpected way

Don Sadler (1937-2013) with our daughter, Edith February 10, 2013

Don Sadler (1937-2013) with our daughter, Edith
February 10, 2013

This past Sunday evening (April 14, 2013), our church family held a memorial service for a dear friend and member of our family, Don Sadler. From November 2011 until March 22, 2013, he quickly became a cherished member of our church family. For those who didn’t know Don, he was just another old man fighting cancer with a set of peculiar habits.  For Michelle, our daughter, and me, he became a part of our family.

In 2006, when I became serious about my faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, I felt the strong desire to reach out to others in a manner that not only lifts them up, but where I can demonstrate and share the love that I feel from Christ in my own life.  There have been many times in my life, even after coming to know the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior, where I have felt abandoned by my fellow Christian and felt I had no earthly friend to turn to.  I decided then that if God ever blessed me with the means, I would do my very best to reach out to others; its an easy concept and one that our Lord and Savior calls us to do: Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee?  Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me (Matthew 25:44-45).

Ever since Michelle and I started talking about getting married in 2007, we both expressed a desire to use our home and love of the Lord Jesus Christ as a means to minister to the needs of others.  We never talked about specifics but knowing each other’s past – she is the daughter of two Salvation Army officers, Bruce and Vicki Stefanik, that are still active and when needed voluntarily serve as disaster assistance with the Salvation Army; and my past history of service in Scouting and as an interim pastor – we both possessed the ability and desire to serve others.  As a side note, as I am preparing this entry to post, the widget that imports the daily King James Version verse is indicating that today’s verse is Romans 13:8: Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.   I cannot think of a more fitting verse to describe the relationship shared by our family and Don.

When Don first began coming to our church, we knew he did not have any family in the area and decided that we would open our home for Don and invite him over for Thanksgiving dinner.  Little did we know that the first Thanksgiving dinner we shared together would be the beginning of a relationship that not only taught us about ourselves, but taught us about ministering to the needs of others.  Don was a man that had a strong need to feel wanted and soon he would get that from our church family and from us.  As our pastor, Alan Ramsey, worked to make sure that Don had the means and transportation to attend church services and special events, Michelle and I had a much easier task – we simply opened our home and our time and allowed Don the opportunity to become a part of the family.

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What map are you using on your life’s journey?

00000149Maps are useful tools that can help us understand the importance of geography in shaping human history, they can help us to make travel and vacation plans, or even help us find our way in unfamiliar places.  We have access to maps on our smartphones, on our computers, or we can buy a map or book of maps at our favorite gas station.  Mankind has gone so far that many of us have navigation devices that allow us to program our destination and it will give us step by step directions until we arrive.  Maps come in all shapes and sizes, contain a range of details, but the basic purpose remains the same – to provide information on the area we are travelling though. Maps can also show us where we have been and can even remind us of the obstacles we have overcome.

For Christians, we have such a map that not only shows us where we were before we accepted Christ as our Savior, but it also provides us direction in our everyday activities and even tells us about our final destination. David, the author of the psalms, wrote Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee (Psalm 119:11).  While none of us seek to start the day by planning to sin and yield to our temptations, we can easily slip at any moment.  The apostle Paul also wrote about this very thing: Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us (Hebrews 12:1).  These two verses together illustrate that as Christians, we must be willing to allow God not only to guide our  paths, but we must yield to his instruction and direction.

The older I have grown and the closer I have come to the Lord, I have come to realize that if there was ever a piece of information I could pass on to a new believer in the Lord Jesus Christ that could help them in their journey, it would be to read the Bible and pray daily, and seek the wisdom and guidance of God. Many Christians have squandered gifts, blessings, and opportunities because they were not familiar with the journey nor were they familiar with the pitfalls that they would encounter.  Solomon wrote Let thine eyes look right on, and let thine eyelids look straight before thee. Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established. Turn not to the right hand nor to the left: remove thy foot from evil (Proverbs 4:25-27).  Too many times in life we take our eyes off our path, we become fixated on what someone else is doing, what someone else has, or maybe we think their pathway is easier than ours.  It is at those moments we lose sight of what is important, it is at those times we choose to yield to temptation and fall into sin.  God’s warning to Cain should resonate with us all:  If thou doest well, shalt thou not be accepted? and if thou doest not well, sin lieth at the door… (Genesis 4:7a).

The apostle Paul wrote a lot on discipleship and instruction to Christians of any age.  In a letter to the church at Thessaloniki, Paul urged Christians to adopt as second nature some things that can improve and maintain our walk with Christ if we will do them on a continuing basis: Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men.  See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men. Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. Quench not the Spirit. Despise not prophesyings. Prove all things; hold fast that which is good. Abstain from all appearance of evil (I Thessalonians 5:14-22). Imagine if every Christian would adopt these things that Paul wrote – warn the lost, provide comfort and assistance to those who are mentally disabled or have physical illnesses or injury, have patience with each other, rejoice in what God has done, pray for everything – all these are things that we can do that God will find acceptable in our lives and we can do each of these every day!

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Examining ourselves before a Holy God

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Our home church, Gospel Light Baptist Church, only share the Lord’s Supper once a quarter with the most recent being this past Sunday (March 24, 2013).  There are no qualifications in scripture about how often this special and sacred time should be observed within the church; we find the only instructions regarding its offering through the writings of the apostle Paul, And when he had given thanks, he brake it, and said, Take, eat: this is my body, which is broken for you: this do in remembrance of me. After the same manner also he took the cup, when he had supped, saying, This cup is the new testament in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me. For as often as ye eat this bread, and drink this cup, ye do shew the Lord’s death till he come (I Corinthians 11:24-26).

There’s nothing magical about the elements of the Lord’s Supper. The unleavened bread and the grape juice do not transform to the literal blood and body of the Lord Jesus Christ, as some faiths teach.  The partaking of the Lord’s Supper does not provide atonement for our sins, as some faiths teach.  The purpose of the Lord’s Supper is to cause us to take pause and to examine ourselves, our relationships with fellow believers, our relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ, and the ultimate sacrifice paid by Him.   We need to remember and to be reminded, not only during the Lord’s Supper but daily this teaching   of Paul: For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us (Romans 5:6-8).

A few years back, Ray Boltz, a Christian contemporary songwriter and singer, released a song called Feel the Nails.  In this song, the artist asks does Jesus still hear the crowds cry “crucify him!” and does he still feel pain of the nails piercing his hands and feet every time we fail him.  For me, it is a sobering thought – each time I have chosen to sin rather than to resist, every time I have failed to listen to guidance of the Holy Spirit – what if I have caused the Lord Jesus Christ to relive the physical and mental anguish of the cross?  This song’s message is powerful and does cause its audience to reflect on their conduct after coming to accept God’s free gift of eternal salvation.

We must remember and never forget that it was all our sins – past, present, and future – that put Jesus on the cross.  Paul wrote to the early Christian church to remind them of this very fact: For it pleased the Father that in him should all fulness dwell; And, having made peace through the blood of his cross, by him to reconcile all things unto himself; by him, I say, whether they be things in earth, or things in heaven. And you, that were sometime alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now hath he reconciled In the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight (Colossians 1:19-22).

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