Category Archives: Contentment

Blogs in this sub-category focus on issues of contentment and how it relates to our Christian walk.

“I want… now” Christianity and the spiritual dangers

i want“I want it now!” is often a phrase many of us with children have heard often. If you don’t have children, you’ve probably listened to the conversation between parent and child, too. Everyone knows that children can be impatient at times. Whether it is a toy, a stop at a restaurant, or to go outside, children are often anxious and unwilling to compromise on their demands. For a parent or any other caretaker, this becomes a lesson in patience and determination. We often see that what a child wants and what they need can often be two different things.

As Christians, at some time in our relationship with the Lord, we’ve been impatient. It happens to every Christian, both young and old. “Lord, I want… now!” may not be the exact words we say, but if we are honest, we know it is what we have felt.

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The snare of indifference and discontentment

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Yesterday afternoon, as I left the community college campus, I got a good look at the inside of my car.  As I was putting my things in the back seat, a pen fell out of my book and onto the floorboard and that is when it hit me how dirty the interior of my car had gotten.  A soda bottle in the floorboard, small leaves and grass, and small pebbles and dirt nearly completely cover both the back and front floorboards. Dust covers the dashboard, a thin layer of film covers the inside of the windshield, and the ashtray is full of pennies.  I hadn’t realized that I had let the car get so bad until that moment.  And then, I began to realize that the problem was not the cold weather or the lack of time to keep the car clean – the problem was I had lost perspective.

Yes, the car I drive is a 2003 Ford Taurus.  It’s a stock model, nothing fancy – but it is the car that God provided for me when I needed it.  It may not have been my first choice, the color, or even the type of car I wantedGod didn’t provide for my wants but provided more than adequately for my needs. The apostle Paul has even told us about the bountiful grace of the Lord Jesus Christ: But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19). God promises us that he will meet our needs when we depend upon his provision. The apostle Paul also wrote Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee (Hebrews 13:5) and But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. And having food and raiment let us be therewith content (I Timothy 6:6-8). What more should I have wanted? I had God’s promise that he would provide for my needs, that he would remain beside me, and he has remained faithful to do those things, yet I willingly chose to treat his provisions for me with a careless attitude.

During the earthly ministry of the Lord Jesus Christ, he even taught those who were willing to listen of their importance in the eyes of God: Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they? Which of you by taking thought can add one cubit unto his stature? And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they toil not, neither do they spin: And yet I say unto you, That even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. Wherefore, if God so clothe the grass of the field, which to day is, and to morrow is cast into the oven, shall he not much more clothe you, O ye of little faith? Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed? (For after all these things do the Gentiles seek:) for your heavenly Father knoweth that ye have need of all these things (Matthew 6:26-32).

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Empty victories, great wealth, and an empty life

So I was great, and increased more than all that were before me in Jerusalem: also my wisdom remained with me.  And whatsoever mine eyes desired I kept not from them, I withheld not my heart from any joy; for my heart rejoiced in all my labour: and this was my portion of all my labour. Then I looked on all the works that my hands had wrought, and on the labour that I had laboured to do: and, behold, all was vanity and vexation of spirit, and there was no profit under the sun (Ecclesiastes 2:9-11).

Solomon, the son of David and king of Israel that God had blessed with great wisdom, struggled with an issue that many of us deal with today.  In this passage, he eliquently describes his great accomplishments as a source of joy and happiness.  Between verses 10 and 11, something changes his perspective – his accomplishments and triumphs have become “empty” victories and have no real lasting value in his eyes.  He makes the stunning announcement that everything he has done has “no profit under the sun.”

We live in a world that demands results and success; although the definition of what the results and successes are changes with each generation, the pressures are the same.  At one time or another, we all have sacrificed, planned, and worked towards some goal with the idea that once we attain it, we will feel happy, content, and able to enjoy our success.  In reality, what many of us find is although we have accomplished our goal, whether it be an immediate or long term one, the feelings of contentment and joy only last for a moment before emptiness again takes hold.

The ultimate question we should begin to ask ourselves is what are our ultimate goals in life?  As we try to answer that question others soon appear, such as – what do I define as “success”? or can I set earthly goals without sacrificing my spiritual goals? – and there are tons more that go through our minds as we really begin to decide what is important in our lives.  The book of Proverbs clearly discusses the importance of future planning and the concept of preparing for the time when you cannot work (consider the ant, Proverbs 6:6).  Jesus taught, as recroded in the gospels, we are not supposed to seek earthly treasures and wealth, but instead, to set our goals and aims to Heaven (Matthew 6:20).  So how are these two very different and distinct teachings to be reconciled?

As Christians, Paul wrote that we need to learn to be content with what we have and remember that Christ is with us always;  Peter wrote it is Christ that should be the focus of our joy (Philippians 4:11; Hebrews 13:5; I Peter 1:8).  There is nothing wrong – in fact it is a Biblical precept – that we should plan financially for our future; however, we need to be sure that when we are blessed financially by God that the possession of wealth does not become our life’s focus.  Think about the rich man that told Jesus that he had kept the Ten Commandments since his childhood and wanted to know what else he had to do.  When Jesus told him to sell all that he had, give it to the poor, and follow him, the young man walked away distraught (Luke 18:22).  I am sure if Jesus had told him to just follow him, there would be no issue and this man might even had become an apostle; however, this was not the case because his life had become centered upon the wealth that he possessed.

Apply this teaching of Jesus to the featured text.  Just like Solomon, this young man had inherited a great fortune and place of respect.  In many ways, he began to see his own accomplishments and wealth as being what gave his life definition – yet all his possessions, his position in the community, and all the power he posessed still did not bring him satisfaction and joy.  Why else would he ask Jesus what else did he need to do?  Why would Solomon state that everything he was, everything he possessed, and all his personal accomplishments were vanity?  They were seeking the joy that only Christ can bring.

When we determine we want our lives to become more Christ-centered, it is amazing what God will do through us and what joy that it brings.  Becoming more Christ-centered provides clarity in our lives.  It allows us to see what really is important, what really matters, and what is vanity.  It means letting go of whatever holds us back from fully embracing the joy of our salvation through Jesus Christ.