Category Archives: Difficulties and Trials

Blogs in this category focus on trials, tribulations, and difficulties we experience in our daily lives.

Gaining focus when you’re surrounded by chaos

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Gaining focus is something we all need to do from time to time. It has been over a year since my last post to The Daily Walk, and during that time, the Lord taught me the importance of gaining focus. When we lose sight of what our goals are, we can become surrounded by chaos. For a Christian, confusion can keep us from reaching our full potential within Christ; it can hinder our prayers. Chaos can rob us of understanding what the Lord wants for us. Gaining focus when you’re surrounded by chaos can be challenging, but it is necessary.

Surrounded by chaos

Chaos is defined by the Merriam Webster Online Dictionary as “a state of utter confusion; a confused mass or mixture.” Chaos and confusion are the same. We often hear others claim they thrive on chaos; we never hear those same folks admit they thrive on confusion. At times, I said I thrived on chaos but soon realized I was only fooling myself. God doesn’t want His children to be in a state of confusion or to have to battle chaos. Chaos and confusion do not come from God but are tokens of the fallen state of this world. Paul writes For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints (1 Corinthians 14:33). It isn’t that chaos and confusion are a sin, but they are the effects of sin.

Gaining focus isn’t easy

In the past, I have resisted sharing a lot of the personal struggles I’ve had in my walk with the Lord. It wasn’t until three weeks ago someone pointed out that they’ve learned a lot from me when I’ve shared my struggles and experiences within my faith.  So, for the past five years, I’ve been struggling how to answer the Lord’s call to serve within His ministry. And during the five-year journey, chaos and confusion became a part that obscured my understanding of what the Lord wanted for me.

During that five-year journey, I hid from the Lord in the comfort of a church and a printing ministry I had started. I knew the Lord wanted me in His service, but I thought that by providing a need for the church I was in, it was all I needed to do. God responded to my efforts by calling me out of my comfort zone and moving me into another local church. For the next four years, chaos and confusion reigned supreme until I decided to listen to what the Lord was trying to teach me.

Only when we are ready to listen

David, the psalmist wrote, The LORD looked down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, and seek God (Psalm 14:2). He also wrote, And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, LORD, hast not forsaken them that seek thee (Psalm 9:10). When we add to this the wisdom of Solomon, Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding (Proverbs 3:5, we can get a glimpse of the nature of the Lord.

God is continually looking for those who are seeking Him above all else. He desires a relationship with everyone but does not force us into a relationship with Him. The Lord waits until we seek Him out; then, He helps us to understand the fullness of our relationship to Him through Christ Jesus. He wants us to put our complete trust in Him. But too often we have a problem with that last part. We worry. Stress takes over as we work out our solutions to the issues we face. We too quickly think we understand what is going on only to find our decisions have made things even worse. It isn’t until we have run out of room to run that we honestly decide to listen to the Lord and to put our trust in Him as our last option.

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Pruning roses: a good example of God’s love for us

pruningPruning roses. For anyone who hasn’t done this, it can be a challenge. When I saw this image on one of the sites I use for stock images, I actually laughed. Only the brave or foolish will prune roses without gloves! But of all the free images on the site, it was the only picture which showed the base of the rose bush.

Last night, our church had the latest monthly dinner using a program offered through the Salvation Army called the Embrace Dinner. The materials are geared towards women’s meetings but are flexible. Our congregation uses it as a theme for a monthly dinner to encourage discussion. Last night’s theme was spiritual challenges. And believe me, this is a topic that is near and dear to my heart. I listened as others shared their spiritual challenges and the Lord reminded me it was time to prune my roses.

Pruning roses: what it does

I live in an apartment and do not have the ability to have a rose garden. Instead, I have a rose bush in a large flower pot outside and a miniature rose on the kitchen window sill. Both roses need pruning to keep them healthy and growing. When I prune the rose bushes, I look for the dead branches. I look for the branches were leaves look unhealthy, and I also look for the long branches that are growing in a direction I don’t want them to grow. All three of those types of branches are removed.

As anyone who loves roses knows, pruning doesn’t hurt the roses when it is done correctly. Pruning roses encourages new growth. Removing the dead branches allows more room for healthy growth. Cutting away the sick branches allows the rose to redirect those nutrients needed for the healthier branches and new growth. Removing the runners allows the gardener the ability to shape the rose bush. And as I was thinking about rose bush care, it hit me: this is how the Lord works in our lives.

The dead branches…

What causes dead branches? Within a rose bush, a number of things such as disease, bugs, and weak or broken spots. If left untreated, these imperfections can impact the health of the rest of the rose bush. As I sat in the dinner last night, listening to everyone share their spiritual challenges, I began to see things a bit more clearly. Just as there are dead branches that jeopardize the health and growth of rose bushes, there are branches that hinder Christian growth. And each of those branches are sins.

The sin in my life…

The apostle Paul spent a lot of his time warning early Christians about sin. In Romans, he writes this strong warning, For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord (Romans 6:23). We all apply this verse to the spiritual death those who have rejected Christ will experience. But for Christians, sin can bring about physical death. Yes, we may be forgiven for sinning as a Christian. But that forgiveness does not stop the consequences of our sin.

There’s a trend among some Christians to think that a little sin in life here is to be expected. But again, Paul warns us of this kind of thinking. In his first letter to the church in Corinth, he is addressing an area of concern. He has heard rumors of how the church is defending the sin of one of its members. Paul rebukes the members of the church. Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump? 1 Corinthians 5:6. Just as a dead branch in a rose bush can impede its growth, tolerating sin in our lives has the same spiritual effects – we cannot grow in our faith. We’ve grown deaf to the pleadings of the Holy Spirit for us to avoid this sin.

Pruning out sin…

Just as the dead branches are cut out and removed from a rose bush, the Lord leads us to see these sins within our own life. He understands we are imperfect beings, but He still calls us to a life of holiness. Within the Old Testament, there ae several places where this is taught: Sanctify yourselves therefore, and be ye holy: for I am the LORD your God (Leviticus 20:7). Yes, we are forgiven for our sins when we repent of them, but it is our willingness to yield to sin which cannot be overlooked. This willingness to sin must be pruned out of us. And this only happens as we seek closeness and fellowship with the Lord and other Christians.

No gardener expects a rose bush to remove its own dead branches. Those dead branches will stay attached to the bush and will block new growth from happening. When we begin to allow the Holy Spirit to remove the temptations to sin, we begin to grow, just as a rose bush will send out new growth. David wrote, Remove from me the way of lying: and grant me thy law graciously (Psalms 119:29). David is asking the Lord to prune him, to remove the sin of lying from him. It is such a yielding to the will of the Lord which allows Him to remove our dead branches.

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And then there are the hard days…

hard daysHard days happen to everyone. It is easy to remember that when you’re comforting someone you know who is having one of those days. It is easy to forget others have hard days when you’re having one of your own.  To be honest, it is a struggle for me some days to just keep functioning. And right now, I am having one of those hard days.

Words of comfort from the Bible

This morning, as things seemed to go from bad to worse, I had to force myself to do my daily Bible reading. In fact, since Saturday morning, I’ve had a verse that’s kept running in my mind: My days are past, my purposes are broken off, even the thoughts of my heart (Job 17:11). When I first began this blog above all else, I wanted to share my triumphs with my failures. Too many Christian blogs give the appearance that Christians are never supposed to have hard days. In complete honesty, I’ve never found that promise in the Bible – and I’ve looked hard for it.

I am in a period of “hard days”

The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit (Psalms 34:18).

As I mentioned above, this morning was a fight to spend time in the Bible. But out of determination to keep my promise to the Lord, I did my reading anyway. I began my normal reading in Proverbs, but it was when I began to read the rest, a recurring theme appeared. God knows the reason of my broken heart. God also has a plan and even though I cannot see what that plan is, it is one that is best for me. But at times we all have days where knowing still does not ease the pain within my heart. And today is one of those hard days.

A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken (Proverbs 15:13).

This verse simply states what we have all observed. When someone is truly happy, everything is impacted by that great joy. That joy becomes clear in everything they do. When someone has a heart that’s so heavy it breaks their spirit, they are almost inconsolable. When someone is that down and that broken, it’s often hard for their mind to make any sense of what is really happening around them. Right now, this is where I am. Not a lot makes sense right now.

What David said when he had  “those days”…

There are eight verses in Psalms that can be applied to “those days”. David, the Psalmist, calls them “days of trouble.” Eight is significant in the Bible because it symbolizes a new beginning. [1] It’s comforting to know that once these days of trouble are over, there’s a new beginning. A ninth verse, found in one of the minor prophets, states: The LORD is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and he knoweth them that trust in him (Nahum 1:7). And yes, the number nine also has a significant meaning. It often refers to the fruits of the spirit or divine completeness from the Lord. [2]

There are times when we are going through “those days” where we do not want to hear the platitudes of others. I’ve heard so many “it’s going to be ok” and “you’ll come through this…” Right now, I do not want to hear those things any more. David understood those moments: In the day of my trouble I sought the Lord: my sore ran in the night, and ceased not: my soul refused to be comforted (Proverbs 77:2). David needed to hear from the Lord. I understand David’s mindset. I needed to hear from the Lord.

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