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Spirit of Christmas: Keeping it all year (Pt 2)

Spirit of Christmas

Earlier this month, we shared the most important part of keeping the spirit of Christmas throughout the year – a personal relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. There is no other way to strengthen the spirit of Christmas within our lives. Jesus must be the foundation upon which everything in our life is built. But this is not where the maintaining of the spirit of Christmas ends, but it is the beginning. The next thing that as Christians, we must do, is to be diligent in seeking Him and His will for each day of our lives. We do this each time we fellowship with the Lord through our personal devotional time. Our personal devotional time is where we spend time reading the Bible, praying to our Lord, and in singing of songs and praises. We cannot completely serve Him or diligently seek after Him if we do not spend this personal time in fellowship with the Lord.

Spirit of Christmas: a time of personal devotion

The apostle Paul understood the importance of seeking the Lord’s will in all that he did and through his writings, urges Christians today the same as he did during his time on Earth. He wrote to the Christians in Ephesus:  I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called, With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love; Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace (Ephesians 4:1-3). Paul is calling for us to walk worthily in our vocation – and as Christians our vocation is what the Lord has called us to do beginning with sharing the gospel with all those we meet. And just as we all try to learn all we can and seek to improve our performance at our jobs, we should seek to learn all we can about the vocation the Lord has called us to serve. Just as we expect our doctors, mechanics, and plumbers to know what we are doing, we should equally strive to know, to master the callings of our faith.

This is exactly the sentiment Paul wrote in a letter to Timothy: Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth (2 Timothy 2:15). As I have shared in previous blogs, it wasn’t until 2006 that I came to accept Jesus as my Lord and Savior; it was the result of me making studying the Bible intensely and purposefully. I set out to study the Bible just as I was studying the materials for graduate school. As we begin to seek God’s will in our life, as we begin to study the scriptures, and as we begin to accept the Lordship of Jesus in our life, the Holy Spirit will begin to teach us and to mold us into what we need to be.

Spirit of Christmas: bearing fruit for Jesus

As we seek after the Lord and truly begin to commune with Him on a more personal level each day, we will begin to see the Holy Spirit work in our lives. We will become more familiar with the things of the Lord and we will be able to understand the spiritual need of others, just as others have prayed for ours. The Lord finds our spiritual growth pleasing as our lives begin to reflect the love of Christ and become more fruitful. Jesus even told us that He wants our faith in Him to bear fruit; that the fruit we produce will be meaningful and lasting. Jesus taught this very thing to those around Him that day as He said: Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you. Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you (John 15:15-16).

Again, Paul reaffirms the teachings of Christ, urging those early Christians in Colossus: For this cause we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; 0 That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God (Colossians 1:9-10). Not only are we to seek out what the Lord would have us do, to do it to the best of our abilities, but we are to pray, according to Paul’s example here, that others may also be “filled with knowledge” – or to be taught and led by the Holy Spirit. It is through our daily fellowship with the Lord where we truly are taught by the Holy Spirit and where we will begin to bear fruit for our Lord and Savior.

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Spirit of Christmas: Keeping it all year (Pt 1)

spirit of christmas

We all have heard the old Christmas song I wish everyday could be like Christmas; we’ve all heard family, friends, and others we’ve met during the holiday season tell us that they wish it were possible to carry the spirit of Christmas with them throughout the year. Beginning after Thanksgiving, many will experience a sudden change in attitude as the Christmas greenery. Many become more focused on the needs and desires of others, some become concerned with sacrificial giving, caring for the poor and elderly, and while others become concerned with developing a deeper faith that only sticks around as long as the Christmas decorations are up. While each of these things are what many consider as the “spirit of Christmas,” we can actually develop an attitude of Christmas that will endure throughout the year.

The spirit of Christmas: a personal relationship with Jesus

There is no possible way we can carry the spirit of Christmas through each day of the year if we do not have a real, personal relationship with Jesus then we can never truly carry the spirit of Christmas with us. There can be no understanding of the importance, the holiness, and the meaning of the birth of Jesus without knowing him. The only way we can truly appreciate the real meaning of Christmas is to have a personal relationship with Jesus. Is He just a baby in a manger and a footnote in the holiday season or is he a Risen Savior, Lord, and King? The gospel of John opens with the following passage: In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. The same was in the beginning with God. All things were made by him; and without him was not any thing made that was made. In him was life; and the life was the light of men. And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not (John 1:1-5).

Those who do not have a personal relationship with the Lord do not understand the excitement that fills the heart of every believer. They don’t see Christmas as the celebration of the birth of the Lamb of God that took away the sins of the world. It shouldn’t surprise us when those who do not know Christ only see Christmas as a time to exchange presents, to spend time with family and friends, and do not understand the significance of this day we have set aside to worship Jesus. Even the atheist will proudly proclaim that Jesus isn’t necessary to celebrate Christmas. They say this because they are incapable of understanding the importance of Jesus as the Lamb of God that has borne the sins of the world. It should not catch us off guard; Jesus explained to Nicodemus: He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil (John 3:18-19).

As Christians, we have a personal relationship with Jesus. Our personal relationship is a relationship of action. Peter wrote that we must show the praises of Jesus, who has called us out of the darkness and into the light: But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light (1 Peter 2:9). It is also important that whatever we do, we do it as a means of bringing glory to the Lord: If any man speak, let him speak as the oracles of God; if any man minister, let him do it as of the ability which God giveth: that God in all things may be glorified through Jesus Christ, to whom be praise and dominion for ever and ever. Amen. (1 Peter 4:11). Just as in a marriage relationship is strengthened by acts of love and devotion, the bonds we share with Jesus, our faith, and our love for Jesus deepens as we begin to put our faith into motion. The apostle James said: Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone. Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works (James 2:17-18). Our personal relationship with Jesus should cause us, as Christians, to bear fruit that give testimony to the goodness of the Lord. 

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Night is approaching; Christ’s light shines brighter

Night is approachingNight is approaching but many Christians remain confused about what the night actually is. Some will try to equate darkness and night with the trials, tribulations, and temptations we endure as Christians. While it can certainly be said that these are real spiritual storms, in no means are they the same as when Jesus told the disciples, I must work the works of him that sent me, while it is day: the night cometh, when no man can work (John 9:4). Later, He would expand on this earlier teaching and as recorded in scripture, Then Jesus said unto them, Yet a little while is the light with you. Walk while ye have the light, lest darkness come upon you: for he that walketh in darkness knoweth not whither he goeth. While ye have light, believe in the light, that ye may be the children of light. These things spake Jesus, and departed, and did hide himself from them (John 12:35-36).

A storm may bring darkened skies but storms never last

Night is approaching but it is important to understand it is not the same as a spiritual storm. Spiritual storms are nothing more than a crisis of our faith where we are faced with a temptation, a trial, or maybe even the Lord’s chastisement. I think of the verse in Genesis where God, after delivering Noah and his family through a mighty storm, made this promise: And it shall come to pass, when I bring a cloud over the earth, that the bow shall be seen in the cloud (Genesis 9:14). God had made a few promises to Noah that included the storm would pass, He would be there to help them through, and when it was over, He would be there at the end of the flood to welcome them with the promise of the rainbow. As Christians, we are given the same offer when the storms of life come. He offers to see us through the storm, He offers to be there with us in the midst of the storm, and He promises that we have a home in Heaven with Him when our life’s journey is done. Storms always end and the results are we can be closer to the Lord, our faith can be strengthened, and we can rejoice knowing He has given us the victory!

Night is approaching: Encroaching spiritual wickedness

The apostle Paul understood the approaching darkness and wickedness even during his lifetime as he warned the early Christians in Ephesus: For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places (Ephesians 6:12). The phrase, rulers of darkness, really stands out and defines exactly what the darkness is. Within the Old Testament, there are several verses that explain what the darkness is: A land of darkness, as darkness itself; and of the shadow of death, without any order, and where the light is as darkness (Job 10:22), Let that day be darkness; let not God regard it from above, neither let the light shine upon it (Job 3:4), He will keep the feet of his saints, and the wicked shall be silent in darkness; for by strength shall no man prevail (1 Samuel 2:9), and They know not, neither will they understand; they walk on in darkness: all the foundations of the earth are out of course (Psalms 82:5). 

Even Jesus spoke of the darkness: When I was daily with you in the temple, ye stretched forth no hands against me: but this is your hour, and the power of darkness (Luke 22:53). Within the gospel of John, the first paragraph explains the reason that Jesus came to dwell among men. The fifth verse is still applicable today:  And the light shineth in darkness; and the darkness comprehended it not (John 1:5). John, as led by the Holy Spirit, would later write, This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all (1 John 1:5). The darkness is not the storms we know as trials, temptations, and other testings of our faith, but of the world lost in its sins and rejection of God. It was the wickedness of mankind that gave room to Satan which influenced the religious leaders of the day to desire to put Jesus to death. It was the darkness of the times and the wickedness in high places that led to the beheading of John the Baptist. The darkness and wickedness continued after the death of Jesus to assure the apostles died remarkably horrible deaths in trying to extinguish the presence of Jesus from the memory of man.  Where a storm is there to increase our faith; darkness creeps in to extinguish all influence of the Lord.

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