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God’s advice comes in very normal ways

fortune cookieGod’s advice always comes at a time when we need to hear it most. Often, when God does send his advice, we are often dismissive of it because surely the Lord would not choose some casual, normal way to relay His words of encouragement to us. Although we are familiar with the scripture, And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice (1 Kings 19:11-12). Elijah had become discouraged and felt that he was the only one going through such a trial as his at the time. At a time when he desired to hear from the Lord, the Lord called him to stand in a cave in a valley – and it was there that God used a small, still voice to communicate with His prophet.

Just like Elijah, often when we need to hear from the Lord we don’t expect the small, still voice or the use of common things that God will use to commune with us. We want to hear the big thundering voice proclaiming we are right, how we have been wronged, or even how we have pleased Him. We overlook the small messages of encouragement and instruction that God gives us simply because we overlook the common things. About two weeks ago, I had a daddy-daughter date with my four-year old. As is our normal tradition, I let her choose the restaurant and we ended up at a local establishment, The China Buffet, which happens to be her favorite. After we finished eating, the waitress brought out the bill and two fortune cookies.

My daughter, the self-proclaimed fortune cookie passer-outer, gave me one with her enthusiastic smile and “Daddy, here you go!” I opened my fortune cookie and instead of the traditional message offering some obscure advice, this was in my cookie: “No matter what your past has been, you have a spotless future.” I am not by any means saying that God uses every fortune cookie to give His children encouragement, but this fortune cookie had a message that God wanted me to remember. I often struggle with what I had done in the past as any regular reader of this blog knows and on this particular day, had already been struggling with Satan. This fortune cookie was God’s subtle way of reminding me of His saving grace. God was reminding me of this simple truth: Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new (2 Corinthians 5:17). God chose to use a common item at hand to remind me of His enduring love for me. As my daughter continued to eat her cookie, I sat in amazement at how God was able to send me a word of encouragement through a fortune cookie.

It is easy for us to overlook the many ways that God sends us messages of teaching and encouragement. Have you ever been driving down the road and all of a sudden a hymn, a gospel song, or even a contemporary Christian song will pop into your mind? Maybe you’ve been at work and you read something that causes you to remember a particular sermon you heard a long time ago. I’ve even had times when I have been preparing lectures in my world civilization course and suddenly I will remember a passage of scripture that accurately describes exactly what happened from God’s perspective. Ever sit out and watch the power of a passing storm, or listen to the birds sing, or even watch a butterfly land on a flower? Each of these can and often are used by the Lord as a way to teach us and encourage us.

I wonder how many times in my past I’ve missed God’s advice simply because I didn’t realize what was happening. It’s extremely easy to become distracted by just having a busy schedule. We live in an era where we are constantly bombarded with things to do, and because of the prevalence of personal electronic devices, I believe our senses have become numb because of the over-stimulation that happens.  It become easy to miss the smaller details and the common things the Lord uses to comfort and teach us. While I am sure there is no one sure-fire way not to miss these moments, for myself, it has become important enough for me to slow down and set aside time each day to simply sit back and listen for the still, small voice.

And in case you’re wondering, I kept the fortune from that fortune cookie and taped it to my laptop as a reminder to look for those small things that are used by the Lord to comfort, teach, and advise me.

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Doing the most with what you have

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Frugality was once considered a virtue in our country. Like the Amish in this picture, most people had learned the skill of doing the most with what they had on hand. Hand-me-downs were not seen as something to be ashamed … Continue reading

An answer to an email: Giving to the Lord

givingGiving to the Lord has been an issue for many Christians. Often confused by the ridicule of the lost world and those Christians who have made giving to the Lord a part of some legalistic doctrine, it has become a subject that makes many feel uncomfortable. This morning, as I was going through my emails, I had someone send me an email asking what I believe about giving to the Lord.  Now, in all honesty, I have never been to seminary. I have come to the understanding of giving, tithes, and offerings on my own personal Bible studies, from the writings of Charles Spurgeon, John Wesley, Andrew Bonar, and the sermons of a handful of other Christian leaders. I will also share that I always did not have this understanding of what giving means for the Christian.

We are saved by God’s grace

Before I share what I have come to understand about giving, it is important to understand what salvation means. The Bible records a conversation between Nicodemus and Jesus: Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother’s womb, and be born? (John 3:4). Jesus answered that question in the simplest way possible so that the meaning would be perfectly clear: Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.  Marvel not that I said unto thee, Ye must be born again (John 3:5-7). Jesus also taught what is at the heart of man’s salvation: And as Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, even so must the Son of man be lifted up: That whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have eternal life. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.  For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God (John 3:14-18).

Ssalvation is truly that simple as the Bible bears witness. Even the apostles understood the simplicity of the message taught by Jesus: the apostle Paul wrote, That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved (Romans 10:9) and For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God (Ephesians 2:8). We must come to the place where we realize that we, personally, are in need of a savior because of sin. On our own, we are sinners. The apostle Paul wrote, For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23) and he is absolutely right. All it takes is to watch the evening news to see the condition of man’s heart. What are we saved from? We are saved from what the Bible calls the wrath of God. We are saved from final judgment through our faith in the shed blood of Jesus Christ; for He alone has made the atonement for our sins.

There are those that believe that there must be some great work or deed that also plays a part within salvation. Salvation is not dependent upon our works and too many times people get confused by the role of works in our faith. James wrote,  Even so faith, if it hath not works, is dead, being alone. Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works (James 2:17-18). While they claim this proves the concept of works for salvation, they often neglect the rest of the passage: Was not Abraham our father justified by works, when he had offered Isaac his son upon the altar? Seest thou how faith wrought with his works, and by works was faith made perfect? And the scripture was fulfilled which saith, Abraham believed God, and it was imputed unto him for righteousness: and he was called the Friend of God. Ye see then how that by works a man is justified, and not by faith only (James 2:21-24). Throughout this chapter in James, he is teaching us a very important concept – our faith should cause within us a desire to do things for the Lord. We do them not as a part of our salvation but because of our salvation. He uses the teachings of Abraham; what allowed Abraham to offer his son, Issac, to the Lord upon the altar? His faith in God and his belief in God’s promise: And he said, I will certainly return unto thee according to the time of life; and, lo, Sarah thy wife shall have a son. And Sarah heard it in the tent door, which was behind him (Genesis 18:10) and  And the LORD said, Shall I hide from Abraham that thing which I do; Seeing that Abraham shall surely become a great and mighty nation, and all the nations of the earth shall be blessed in him? (Genesis 18: 17-18). By Abraham’s faith, knowing God would keep His promise, he knew that if he sacrificed Issac at the request of God, God would still make a provision to fulfill the promise given! It was this demonstration of Abraham’s faith in the Lord at work.

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