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Focusing on the things that matter

happy-easter-easter-cross-daybreakIn our world it seems that everyone is in a hurry. We have inventions,  and gadgets that were designed for the sole purpose of making the things in our life more convenient. Even job listings have the qualifier of “must be able to multi-task” as an ability that employers are looking for when hiring new people. There is even an entire genre of restaurants that specialize in selling meals that are ready within a few minutes and we do not even have to get out of our car to get them. Unfortunately, many people apply this same frantic pace when it comes to the two most important things we have: our relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ and the relationship we share with our family.

It is easy to lose focus on the things that are important to us as we rush through our busy schedules. It’s easy to skip Bible reading because of an extra tap on the snooze button one morning then turn around and realize that it is now three months later and the entire time, there was always a reason why you could not read the Bible that morning until you no longer remember it as a part of your normal routine. It’s easy to decide to read your Bible or devotional while eating or doing some other task; after all, we all know how to multi-task pretty well until a few weeks or months later, we really do not see where the Bible reading is adding anything to our lives. There are times we get so busy that we even forget the simplest of tasks that need to be done on any given day. Our families suffer as our extra-curricular, service groups, and jobs demand more and more of our time. In our quest to live rich and full lives, we are doing so many things that often the old expression “jack of all trades and master of none” becomes our life’s slogan.

A few months ago, as the Spring 2014 semester was drawing to a close, I had received an email the last two weeks of the semester stating that a new reporting procedure had been put into place and that when final grades were entered into the system, we would need to log into a different interface to report those students that had not attended class since mid-term. My “tradition” is that I enter the grades for each course after I have graded all the projects and papers for the course. Because of multi-tasking and the sheer number of projects I wanted to get done before the weekend, I forgot to enter the requested (and required) report on time. Thank the Lord that many others forgot it too because the deadline was extended another five days; however, it taught me an important lesson: I needed to decide what was really important within my life.

With me believing up to that point that so many things were important, I was not only not devoting the attention that each required, but very little was actually being accomplished. Some things, such as the video ministry I am involved with, the book project I’m working on, and a few others had fallen so far behind that it is going to take dedication and determination to catch up to where I need to be. In my quest to be productive I had become easily distracted by many other things, each requiring time, but in the big scheme of things, having little value. Jesus taught during his earthly ministry: A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh (Luke 6:45), For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also (Luke 12:34), and  Either make the tree good, and his fruit good; or else make the tree corrupt, and his fruit corrupt: for the tree is known by his fruit (Matthew 12:33). Everything we do without regard to whom or what we do it for can only be classified into one of these categories – it’s either good fruit or bad. Whatever we do that we invest the most work and effort in is what we consider our treasure.

When I began to look at the things in my life in those terms, it became pretty clear that many of the things I was doing were not going to bear eternal fruit in Heaven. It is not necessarily that those things were evil or that there was anything particularly wrong with them, it was just that they did nothing to further the gospel message of the Lord that I serve nor did they relate directly to supporting my commitments made to my employer, my family, or even my church. They were commitments made for nothing better than to elevate my own position and that appealed to my flesh. No one is immune from the desire to increase our own self-image and self-worth. I am reminded of the teachings of the Lord: And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth. And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certain rich man brought forth plentifully: And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do, because I have no room where to bestow my fruits? And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater; and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods. And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided? So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God (Luke 12:15-21).

What a powerful thought when it is applied to our daily lives – everything we do is either laying up treasure in Heaven or treasure on Earth. Although I do enjoy being a part of various civic groups, they have no eternal value; things that have eternal value are what matters to God. These are things that either point others to Him or that testify to our faithfulness to Him. How many projects or positions I hold through the American Legion or the VFW does not have eternal value; the time studying God’s word, telling others about the goodness of God, living a lifestyle that testifies that Jesus is my Lord and Savior, being faithful in my worship to Him, and raising my children to love the Lord – these are things that have eternal value. How much money I give to charity does not have eternal value; how I gave to the Lord in support of the local ministry and my attitude towards that giving has eternal value. Our society openly rewards and praises people who spend many hours and give much money to charities they consider as being worthy, yet scoffs at the Christian that does those very same things in service of the Lord Jesus Christ. The question becomes where do we place our focus and God has prescribed to us His guidance: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also (Matthew 6:21). To put it more bluntly, the things that we care enough to put our time and efforts into are where we are placing our treasures. It is these things that when we spend our time, energies, and talents at doing that we name them – through our actions – to the Lord as being the important things that matter to us.

When we begin to honestly desire to see our lives through the eyes of the Lord we begin to realize that so much of our lives are out of focus. In my own life, I have wasted time, money, and energy on things that will not simply not matter. At the time, I justified being so busy with the things that I wanted to do that have little eternal value by claiming that I was trying to make a difference now and not allowing the Lord to show me the things that He had for me to do now that would have brought others to Him so that they may know the joy that knowing Christ brings. Thank God that He always allows us to come back to Him once we realize how far from His plan we’ve strayed. 

Powerless churches, weak Christians, and dangerous currents

 Water_safety_sign_Dangerous_currentOver the past year, for financial reasons and out of frustration over the increasing indecency and immorality of television programing, we made the decision to end our cable television subscription. Since then, I have found that I have more time to do the things I enjoy doing and I am less distracted when I do the things that I need to do. One of the things I enjoy is reading, and lately, as a means of improving my Bible studies, I have been reading some of the older literature of the faith – much of it written from the 18th through early 20th Century – the writings of Charles Spurgeon, D. L. Moody, Andrew Bonar, R. A. Torrey, and Emery Bancroft.

One of the things that I have noticed about their writings that has had a profound impact on my way of thinking is the condition of the church and the fundamental understandings that many people have about the Christian faith. Over the past years, I have had several conversations where others (and myself) have lamented that our faith simply does not feel as strong as it should, how the church almost seems powerless within our communities, and how families are falling apart. This morning, while reading my morning devotional, a constant theme kept running through it:  And Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, took either of them his censer, and put fire therein, and put incense thereon, and offered strange fire before the LORD, which he commanded them not (Leviticus 10:1), And Nadab and Abihu died, when they offered strange fire before the LORD (Numbers 26:61), and, Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein (Hebrews 13:9).

As many of my readers know, I was not brought up in a Christian household nor did my family regularly attend church. I did not become active in my faith until 2006 when I decided to become serious about my faith. Before then, I was content to let social contexts define my faith and because of that stand, I did not live the sort of life that God has called us to live: Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy (I Peter 1:16). I know now that many out there have the same struggle I had – God seems distant, your faith is weak, and often it seems that temptation and sin overcome you. You go to church seeking answers but instead, all you get is confusion. One of the things that I have noticed since my reading of the old church leaders I mentioned above is that the church, to be seen as relevant in modern society, has adopted teachings and viewpoints that no longer bear the weight of scripture, but are tainted by the teachings and viewpoints of the lost world as a way to be seen as being compassionate, relevant, and even updated to fit modern times. It is for this very reason that churches are struggling, the family is falling apart, and Christians are weak. Strange fire is being offered from the pulpits across the nation and many are being led to adopt strange and diverse doctrines that the apostle Paul warns about. It is hard to keep the place of relevance that God has called the church to hold when the church has forsaken His never-changing teachings and doctrines.

The church and the modern Christian have mostly ignored the “dangerous current” signs placed all through the scriptures and has continued to adopt ideas that should be foreign. Yesterday, while on the community college campus, I saw a bumper sticker that read, “I’m Christian and support abortion”.  This is exactly the mindset that I am referring to. All through the scriptures, we see that God deems all human life as important, and even declared to the prophet Jeremiah, Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations (Jeremiah 1:5). I honestly believe that God knows each of us before we are born and has a plan for each of us, providing that we make the choice to follow His will for us. Even the apostle Paul wrote, But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother’s womb, and called me by his grace (Galatians 1:15) which solidifies the concept that God There are 67 other verses in the Bible where God discusses life in the womb, yet man, in our wisdom, has proclaimed that abortion is a “woman’s right” as we collectively thumb our nose at God. If God has declared that life begins in the womb then we know that God would consider abortion – man ending that life in the womb – as immoral. In fact, the Old Testament considers it just that: If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman’s husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine. And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life (Exodus 21:22-23). Whether it is out of fear of losing members of the congregation or crossing the imaginary line between politics and religion, many of our nation’s pastors and religious leaders are afraid to preach against the evils of abortion. There should be no great surprise when we read that one CNN poll reported that nearly 56% of Americans who identify themselves as Christians do not see any conflict between their faith and abortion. Again, God’s teachings have not changed, yet the church is swimming in dangerous currents.

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When the house of cards falls – and it will

house-of-cardsWhen I was a child, one of the things I enjoyed was building towers made out of simple playing cards. Within a few short days of the discovery of this “new” entertainment, I was making towers of playing cards that almost reached three feet in height.  I quickly learned from the mistakes in design that caused the house of cards to become unstable and collapse. Remembering the lessons learned from those days of childhood, each time the cards would fall, I saw it as an opportunity to try something different and new. Sometimes I would be able to build even taller until I ran out of cards and other times I would simply not even know where to begin rebuilding. How little did I understand in those days that God was trying to teach me an important lesson that I had forgotten until now.

We have all hit stages in our life where we look around and realize that our life is not where we thought it should have been. Maybe you are not as far along in your career as you had planned to be. Maybe you’ve gone through relationship issues that you thought you would be beyond by now. Maybe you’ve experienced something that has opened old wounds that you are having a hard time overcoming. Maybe today you are standing in the middle of the ashes of great plans or dreams you had and you simply do not know where to start. It is very easy during these times to become distracted, to become angry, and if we allow it, to become bitter towards those around us and God.  It becomes easy to become disgruntled and to blame others instead of really seeking to find out what went wrong. God invites us to do just that: Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool (Isaiah 1:18).

In my own life, I have gone through a number of things that did not end the way I thought they should have.  I have experienced the pains of two failed marriages and the feelings of failure, shame, inadequacy, and uncertainty that it brings.  I have experienced the confusion and chaos that the loss of a job can bring when things happen beyond our control. In 2006 and since then, when things have not worked out the way I had hoped, I decided to do just that – to reason with the Lord about why things had not happened the way I had hoped.  It meant for the first time in my life, of being completely candid and honest with myself.  One of the worst things we can do to ourselves is to lie to ourselves; we do it quite often. With my own life, I had a tendency not to acknowledge that my sins were as bad as the sins of others.  In fact, the apostle John wrote, If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us (1 John 1:8) as a warning about the condition of our own heart.  Even the prophet Jeremiah warns, The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? (Jeremiah 17:9). When we fail to see the condition of our own heart and when we fail to understand why we do what we do, we are setting ourselves up for future failures.

In 2006, as I watched everything I thought was certain in my life collapse around me, I decided to do something I had never done.  I share this with you not because I am claiming to be super-spiritual or that I have all of life’s answers, because I don’t. I am simply sharing what has since worked for me. I needed to find out who I was, what my relationship was with the Lord, and for the first time in my life, to truly seek God’s face and will for my life.  I decided to take a Saturday and instead of my normal routine, I left my cell phone at home and took my backpack, a few bottles of water, my knee brace, and my small Bible, and decided to hike every trail in Giant City State Park, spending the time in prayer and in solitude.  I needed to hear from the Lord.  As I locked my car in the parking lot, I said my first sincere prayer of the day; I asked God to open my eyes and to let me see my life as He sees my life.  Folks, that prayer is not for cowards or sissies.  Before I even took my first step out of the parking lot, I took a few minutes to read two chapters of Proverbs and decided that each time I took a break, I would read another two chapters.  I spent the day either in Scripture, in prayer, or thinking on the verses I had read and evaluating the things in my life that had brought me to that point. Sometimes the only way we can really hear from the Lord is to remove ourselves from our daily routines and to truly seek time with the Lord.

What I began to understand for the first time in my life is the importance of seeking the will of God in all that I do.  Whether it is dating, marriage, or even career choice, all too often we have a tendency to make hasty decisions based on emotions or appeal to our vanity.  Solomon wrote, Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding (Proverbs 3:5) and his father, David, wrote O God, thou art my God; early will I seek thee: my soul thirsteth for thee, my flesh longeth for thee in a dry and thirsty land, where no water is (Psalms 63:1). Both verses offer profound guidance for the Christian seeking to really understand what the Lord Jesus Christ would have them to do. This was something that I had never done; I had acted on emotional appeal, perceived appearances, promised personal benefit, and a number of other factors, but never had I made a decision solely based on guidance of the Holy Spirit. Never had I made a decision after consulting only the Lord or seeking out His will for me.  I simply made the decision on my own and had the audacity to blame God when things didn’t work out the way I wanted.

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