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A lesson of reflecting God as taught by a setting Moon

Ohio River at Moonset

[Author’s note:  This year, I am making a conscious effort not to do anything on Sundays except for church and spending time with my family.  As a Christian, I feel that it is important to make the day that Christians choose to worship – Sunday – different than the rest of the week.  With this in mind, although this entry is posted on a Sunday, it was actually written beforehand.] 

This picture was taken back in late November as the mornings began to grow colder with the approach of winter.  As the moon was setting early in that cool and crisp morning I was captivated by the dark blues, purples, and hints of various shades of pink that accompanied the moon as it passed below the horizon.  I took this picture not knowing if it would even capture the slightest beauty of the moment.  A few days later, when I was uploading the pictures to my computer, I noticed that not only was the moment captured, but it turned out remarkably well – including the reflection of the moon on  the Ohio River.  As I look at that picture, I think of how we are called to reflect the love of Christ in our daily lives – not just to fellow believers but to all that we come into contact with during the day.

I know that in my own life I have struggled with this continually.  How can one reflect the love of Christ to those who have hurt us in the past?  How do we reflect that love to those who do not understand our dedication to Christ and openly ridicule our commitment to attend church and actively participate in its programs? How can we reflect the love of Christ to those who have not accepted what Jesus has done for them?  This is where I have learned that true Christianity is not just a religion but is also a life philosophy.  True Christianity should shape how we understand and relate not only to God, but to ourselves, to others, and to the world around us.  It is a real struggle for many, including myself, to willingly reflect the selfless love that Christ has shown to those that we have deemed unworthy to accept such unmerited grace.  However, just as the Ohio River didn’t have to think about reflecting the moon’s light on that cold November morning, we should not have to think about reflecting the love of Christ; it should come naturally and with very little effort.

I am reminded of the story of Moses and how during the exodus out of Egypt he went to the top of Mount Sinai and stayed for forty days and nights in the presence of the Lord.  As recorded in the book of Exodus: And it came to pass, when Moses came down from mount Sinai with the two tables of testimony in Moses’ hand, when he came down from the mount, that Moses wist not that the skin of his face shone while he talked with him. And when Aaron and all the children of Israel saw Moses, behold, the skin of his face shone; and they were afraid to come nigh him (Exodus 34:29-30). Moses’ shining was the direct result of him being in the presence of the Almighty God; as he communed with God he began to take on the characteristics of God – the same light we read about Moses radiating was nothing more than a reflection of the holiness of God. In the New Testament we also see Jesus radiating light in Mark 9:3 as he communed with Moses, Elijah, and his three disciples.  The only difference is that while Moses was simply reflecting the light, Jesus IS the light: Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life (John 8:12).  When we have the light of life that Christ gives, we too, should be able to reflect that great selfless love that he willingly gives us.

As we go about our daily routines, there are two basic types of people we come into contact with – those who have been saved by accepting the free gift of salvation as offered by God, and the others are lost.  The apostle Paul wrote to the church at Thessaloniki: And the Lord make you to increase and abound in love one toward another, and toward all men, even as we do toward you: To the end he may stablish your hearts unblameable in holiness before God, even our Father, at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ with all his saints (I Thessalonians 3:12-13).  Not only are we to reflect the love of the Lord Jesus Christ to fellow believers but also to those who are lost.  For those who are lost, the love of Christ we have within us should be drawing us to bear witness of that love: And of some have compassion, making a difference:  And others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire; hating even the garment spotted by the flesh (Jude 22-23).  Our heartfelt desire should be to see others accept the same salvation that was freely offered to us.  We should desire that others come to know and enjoy the unmerited grace and mercies of God through the completed work of Christ Jesus.

The lesson of waiting and faith

Therefore I will look unto the LORD; I will wait for the God of my salvation: my God will hear me (Micah 7:7).

During our pastor’s sermon last night, my wife and I shared a laugh as Pastor Ramsey talked about his own impatience.  What we found funny was not that my pastor was talking about his impatience, but he actually described my impatience perfectly!  As he began his sermon, he mentioned waiting at busy intersections, waiting in line at Walmart, and other common situations where we are forced to abandon our own self-imposed time lines and just wait.  One of the most difficult things to do is just to wait; it can be made even more difficult when we are faced with a situation where we see no visible way out!

Yesterday’s services, from Sunday school to the evening service, were filled with references and reminders that at times, it is important for us to wait and to do so in a spirit of thankfulness and  continued prayer.  Through the prophet Isaiah, God reminds both Jew and Christian alike that they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint (Isaiah 40:31). When we wait and accept what God has planned for us we will be rewarded by an overjoyed heart and will not be filled with dread or fear, but instead will excel in what God has put before us.  Have you   ever have a job or project that you enjoyed doing so much that it didn’t seem like work?  Did you ever get excited the more you became involved in it?  Did you notice that even when things didn’t go exactly as planned that they were never as bad as they could have been?  Then you totally understand what Isaiah is speaking about in this verse.

Our adult Sunday school class teacher, Eddy Owens, shared with our class how in his life that there are times he has felt that God has shut all the doors and windows and left him in a hallway to just wait.  What an accurate description of what God will do to get our attention; the prophet Isaiah must have also felt the same way when he wrote And therefore will the LORD wait, that he may be gracious unto you, and therefore will he be exalted, that he may have mercy upon you: for the LORD is a God of judgment: blessed are all they that wait for him (Isaiah 30:18). David, whom God called a man after his own heart, wrote He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake (Psalms 23:2-3).  There’s an important lesson we can apply here – there will come times in our lives where God puts us in a situation where all we can do is to wait upon him and we are to rest ourselves – spiritually, physically, and mentally – while we wait.

There are times in our lives that we simply do need the opportunity for rest.  The psalmist and king, David, understood this quite well when he wrote Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass(Psalms 37:7). Right now, my wife and I am in the middle of one of these “rest, wait, and fret not…” times in our lives.  There are times where it’s easy, at least for me, to take my eyes off the Lord and begin to worry about everything else that’s going on around me.  Bills, finances, car repairs, and a whole host of things begin to preoccupy my mind.  Instead, what God wants for us is not to worry but to use the time waiting to rest.  There are times when we look back at things that have happened in our lives and we have what I refer to as a “Job moment,” For now should I have lain still and been quiet, I should have slept: then had I been at rest (Job 3:13).  Too many times when we should have rested, we worry instead.  We find ourselves spiritually tired to the point that it can delay or keep us from enjoying God’s rich blessings that he has planned for us.

Additionally, while we are waiting on God’s direction we should not be ashamed.  David, a man that found himself waiting a lot for God’s timing, wrote O my God, I trust in thee: let me not be ashamed, let not mine enemies triumph over me. Yea, let none that wait on thee be ashamed: let them be ashamed which transgress without cause (Psalms 25:2-3). We are not to be ashamed for our faith in God nor are we to be ashamed when we are placed in a position when all we can do is wait upon God’s timing. It is amazing how when Christians find themselves in situations where waiting is the only thing we can do Satan begins to taunt us with the ever so effective  “so where is your God now?”  It is important that we remember what God gently reminds us through the writing of the psalmist, David: Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth (Psalms 46:10).  I have learned that there are blessings for obedience.  When God tells us to wait on him, and we do, not only do we demonstrate our faith in him, but we also exercise and strengthen our faith in him.

Preparing the path of a young person

Son of man, I have made thee a watchman unto the house of Israel: therefore hear the word at my mouth, and give them warning from me (Ezekiel 3:17).

I am not in any way comparing myself or my spiritual calling to that of the Old Testament prophet Ezekiel.  And as a further observation, I am far from the perfect parent; I have made my share of mistakes as a father and as a Christian.  With that said, a combination of my own life experiences while growing up and the past nine years as an adjunct at various community colleges and four-year universities has let me to understand how important it is that Christian parents “get it right” when preparing their children for adulthood.

Earlier this morning I was checking my email and found that a former student of mine had sent an email asking me for some academic and personal advice.  As an adjunct, I cannot formally advise students about their academic career but do offer advice on how to make the most of even the most difficult class.  As far as the personal advice, I do offer it with the understanding that I am coming from a Christian perspective and for the most part, when I tell a student that, it opens the door for them to ask more questions about my faith.  Almost all the students that ask me either for personal advice or to discuss issues of faith were not prepared by their parents to face adulthood; some come from homes a lot like what I grew up in while others come from what they described as a “Christian” home.

One of the most important things that parents do for their children is to Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it, as written by Solomon (Proverbs 22:6).  Nearly ten years ago and while attending a church revival meeting at a small country Baptist church in southeastern Missouri, I heard a preacher twho opened my eyes to the extent it has changed forever my understanding of this verse.  he discussed how parents have given this responsibility – without any reservation – to the lost world!  Unfortunately, he is right.

As Solomon put it, training up a child is about preparing the child for adulthood. It is about teaching them to not only how to work and to be productive, but know themselves, know their relationship with God, and to understand their relationship with others.  Yes, traditional education, which is geared for  productivity and work has been yielded to public institutions to the extent that a majority of parents no longer feel obligated to have an active role in preparing their child for adulthood.  No longer are parents teaching their children a work ethic, occupational skills, religious teachings, or even reaffirmation of academic teachings – it has all been left to the realm of “public education.”

We see the results of this after nearly thirty years of abandonment of this important parental responsibility.  We have families that no longer resemble what God had planned, one in two marriages ending in divorce and children in homes with one parent or even  being raised by grandparents, churches across our nation closing their doors for the last time, and souls not being reached for Jesus.  I can tell you that although many of my 18 to 25 year old college students have been raised in a spiritual vacuum, a few are asking questions about God, faith, and how to fit the belief in God into a “science driven” world.  Yes, there are a few who are hungry to learn about God so they can be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you [them] a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear (I Peter 3:15).