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Forgetting ourselves but judging others

What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s (I Corinthians 6:19).

[I originally began this post on Tuesday, April 17th, 2012, but because of everything that I had going on, was unable to finish it.  It is now posted as originally written.  I have also decided since I am struggling with obesity, to include a widget on the About the author page from a program I am using to record my weight loss progress.  No Christian currently living is perfect, but we do have an obligation to avoid being a stumbling block for others – and this includes the way we take care of ourselves.]

This afternoon, as my daughter took a mid-day nap, I ran the kitchen trash out to the dumpster near the row of townhouses where ours is located.  As I was on my way back to our home, I ran into one of the neighbors that lives in the building across the street.  Firmly believing that it is important to acknowledge others, I said hello to the young man; when we show common courtesy to others it may give us the opportunity to share the Lord with others and help us establish meaningful friendships (Proverbs 18:24).  I didn’t expect him to even respond to my greeting, but he soon began to ask me a series of questions.

He told me that he and his live-in girlfriend were having a disagreement over several things and had to leave the apartment and used the trash as his excuse.  The disagreement had begun over a seemingly small issue but soon had evolved (or devolved) into a discussion between the two over whose lifestyle was the worst.  He said that his was not as bad as what it could be, he was not into drugs or alcohol; he had a problem looking at pornography and had been caught looking at the stuff on the Internet.  I am sure he was looking for a sympathetic “you’re right,” or “at least you weren’t cheating…” either being the last thing he needed to hear.  He needed to hear about Jesus.

As I began to explain to him that it really doesn’t matter what other people think of his life, I did tell him what matters is how God sees his lifeI explained to him that in God’s eyes sin is sin. Where we seek to justify ourselves in our own eyes by placing sin in categories, God simply sees it all as being equal.  Simply put, sin is the act of violating the laws of God (James 2:10).  As we continued our conversation a bit more I began to see things in my own life in a slightly different manner.

Many Christians today make a big deal out of the body piercings and tattoos that many people have; we have all heard it preached from the pulpits that during the Old Testament times God had instructed the children of Israel that Ye shall not make any cuttings in your flesh for the dead, nor print any marks upon you: I am the LORD (Leviticus 19:28).  What we seem to forget – the very reason that God does not want us to mark our bodies – is the exact reason that Paul reminds us in I Corinthians – our bodies are not our own, but have been bought with a price.  Just as Christians claim that tattoos, piercings, and the use of illegal drugs are all sins that destroy the body, so is neglecting our physical health.  Obesity, anorexia, and bulimia are ever present in our churches yet they are rarely mentioned.

This is one of the many reasons that the lost will claim that our churches are filled with hypocrites.  We easily condemn those that are lost based on outward appearances but yet tell ourselves that others need to judge us by what is in our hearts.  Even Jesus warned those listening to him, And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?  Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?  Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye (Matthew 7:3-5).

When we set different standards for others, including the standards of physical appearance, categorization of “greater” and “lesser” sins we are actually committing what God has labeled as an abomination.  Solomon, who had been given a great gift of wisdom by God, wrote that Divers weights, and divers measures, both of them are alike abomination to the LORD (Proverbs 20:10). As Christians, we should not pass our own judgment on the lost or on Christians who are lingering after the flesh more harshly than we view our own shortcomings.  In the eyes of God, sin is sin – sexual immorality, murder, obesity, affairs, and even “white lies” – are all equal in the eyes of God.  They are all open rebellion against God’s righteousness.  We also must understand that while God hates all sin, he also has made a way for all sinners to be redeemed through his love (John 3:16).

Why should I put my trust in God to solve my problems? (Pt 3)

Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil  (Proverbs 3:5-7).

The first installment in the continuing series, Why should I put my trust in God to solve my problems, focused on the concept that God knows what trials and difficulties we face and how they will end according to the choices we make.  The second installment focused on how God is aware of the pitfalls and traps that await us on any path we choose when we are confronted with difficulties.  As we continue this series, this post will focus on one of the things that God tells us specifically not to do when we are faced with trials, tribulations, and difficulties.

Why should I put my trust in God to solve my problems?

Our own plans and schemes to get out or avoid difficulties have roots deeply embedded in our sinful nature.

Back when I was a graduate student at Southern Illinois University I lived in an area called Southern Hills.  It was university provided housing for single and married graduate students.  I had a next door neighbor that was a Church of the Nazarine member; he and I frequently had philosophical and doctrinal debates over just about every aspect of Christianity.  One particular afternoon, as he and I began talking about faith, he commented that God had opened a door for him and had allowed his loan to be approved – he went to one of those title loan places and borrowed $500.00 against his car – that he had owned and was clear of any other liens.

About two months into his payment plan, he lost his assistantship and could no longer afford his payment plan.  His car, a 2003 Jeep Grand Cherokee Sport, was repossessed for a balance he owed of around $300.  Although the car’s value was well above what was actually owed, he had no other choice but to surrender the car.  Just like my neighbor, we have a tendency to see our difficulties, our trials, and our tribulations through world-focused vision.  Having world-focused vision means that too often our “solutions” are also world focused.  We devise plans and scenarios that we believe will help solve our problems that fail and cause us to become discouraged.  Our solutions can also put us in a predicament where God cannot bless us until we have repented of our own selfish plans.

God dealt with the children of Israel with this very thing – trying fleshly solutions to problems – as he was leading them out of Egypt.  Here God had worked a tremendous victory and had delivered them from the bonds of slavery out of Egypt.  He fed them manna from Heaven and provided water for them to drink.  While waiting for Moses to return from the top of Mount Sinai, they became concerned and demanded that an idol be made for them to voice their prayers.  They believed that Moses was no longer alive; rather than seek God’s will, they decided to rely on their own understanding of the nature of God  (Exodus 32:1-4).  Knowing that man is tempted to understand trials, tribulations, and even blessings through explanations of the flesh, God includes in the Torah a reminder that Ye shall not do after all the things that we do here this day, every man whatsoever is right in his own eyes (Deuteronomy 12:8).

As children of God, when we rely on our own understanding of our trials and difficulties rather than trusting in God, we remove ourselves from God’s protection We no longer see objectively or clearly and become weighted down by the desires of the flesh (Proverbs 30:12).  The Bible is filled with stories, both Old and New Testaments, where God’s people have chosen thier own solutions to problems they faced and had to deal with the repercussions of thier decisions.  Abraham lied about his wife, Sarah being his sister; Peter denied Christ three times rather than admit he was a disciple when challenged – are just two of the many stories we see preserved within the pages of the Bible.

The choices made by the Abraham, the High Priest Eli, David, Peter, and even back at the beginning with Abraham to  rely on their own undersanding of the difficulties and trials they faced brought them to the point that the prophet Jeremiah recorded as God explained Because my people hath forgotten me, they have burned incense to vanity, and they have caused them to stumble in their ways from the ancient paths, to walk in paths, in a way not cast up… I will shew them the back, and not the face, in the day of their calamity (Jeremiah 18:15-17).  God cannot look upon our sin of disobedience and protect us as he does when we are living according to his plan (Proverbs 2:6-9)

God calls us to reject the path that the flesh and world would have us to follow.  Instead, he calls us to follow the path he has set before us; David, the author of the Psalms tells us that God wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore (Psalms 16:11).  This path brings us beyond death and into life everlasting and it will bring us great joy in the end.

Why should I put my trust in God to solve my problems? (Pt 2)

Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil  (Proverbs 3:5-7).

The first installment in the continuing series, Why should I put my trust in God to solve my problems, focused on the concept that God knows what trials and difficulties we face and how they will end according to the choices we make.  That simple truth, if we would just take the time to remember it, would be enough to set many of our fears to rest.  In this post, we’ll look at another promise made by God in the same featured passage that should also bring us comfort if we’d just take the time to take our problems to God.

Why should I put my trust in God to solve my problems?

God knows where the pits and snares are in our paths and can lead us safely past them (Psalms 142:3).

This is something that David, the author of the Psalms, understood quite well.  When we allow God to lead us through whatever difficulty we face we can rest assured that he already knows where the traps and pitfalls are and will lead us safely over them (Psalm 91:3; Psalm 140:5).  Solomon wrote that those who do not rely on God actually put snares in their own paths, often not realizing that their decisions, which may seem wise at the time, will do nothing beyond increasing their distress (Proverbs 12:13; Proverbs 29:6; Ecclesiastes 9:12).  Everyone can think back to a time in their life when a solution we devised actually made the problem worse.

Additionally, God warns us that there are others – both human and demonic forces – that are constantly creating traps and blocks for us.  Yes, as hard as it is to believe, often times when we are facing difficulties there are family members and friends that will encourage us to take the easy way out.  Even Job faced this problem with his own wife and friends; they probably thought that their understanding of the situation and their solutions would benefit Job (Job 30:13).  In reality, their plans, had Job actually listened and done them, he would have been outside the will and protection of God.  Job understood that if he was going to survive what he faced he had to put his complete faith and trust in God.  Job understood that God knew the obstacles that awaited him.  All Job had to do was to follow the path that God had prepared for him  (Job 41:32; Psalm 16:11; Psalm 142:3).

There is no better demonstration of this principle than the story of Abraham and his son, Isaac.  Abraham faced a great trial – he had been asked by God to offer his only son, Isaac, as a sacrifice.  He had complete trust in God that he never hesitated from the path set before him.  When asked by Isaac where the lamb was for the sacrifice, Abraham simply replied that God will provide himself a lamb for a burnt offering (Genesis 22:8).  Abraham had enough faith in God that he was unwilling to do anything other than follow God.  He prepared the altar and even bound his son and was prepared to offer Isaac until an angel sent by God intervened to stop Abraham.  Just as Abraham had told his son, God had provided a lamb for the sacrifice (Genesis 22:13).

Many of us may never have to face a trial of the magnitude of either Job or Abraham; however, how we face the ones we do experience offers the same evaluation of our character and faith as was done to these two men.  We all know the numerous promises and blessings that God gave both men.  Job became even more materially well off and had a larger family after his ordeal; Abraham was promised that he would be the father of a great nation and through him all the world would be blessed (Job 42:12-17; Genesis 22:15-18).  God was able to bless these men because they put their complete faith in God and in his plan for their lives.

As mentioned in the first installment of this series, the apostle Peter had a similar test of faith when he stepped out of the ship to walk on water to Jesus.  As he chose his path, Satan used the storm to distract Peter and to shift his focus away from Jesus Christ and onto the current circumstances.  As the waves grew higher, the winds blew harder, Peter made the decision to concentrate on the trial he was facing – his surroundings – rather than keeping his complete faith on Jesus Christ and the path that he set before Peter.

Many years before, the prophet Isaiah wrote Thus saith the LORD, which maketh a way in the sea, and a path in the mighty waters; even Isaiah, who had never seen Jesus walk on water or the Red Sea parted, understood that if God can create a path for us where it seems impossible, how much more is he able to protect us and bless us when we trust the path he has set before us? (Isaiah 43:16).

The apostle Paul, knowing the trials and difficulties that believers would face, wrote the Lord direct your hearts into the love of God; if God loved mankind enough to send his Son to die on the cross to pay for our sins, then how much more would he provide us direction to prevent us from failing.  It is through our personal devotions and prayer time, church attendance, and fellowship with other Christians that we strengthen our faith and begin to truly appreciate what it means to be a child of God (Proverbs 27:17).  All it takes is for us to put our faith in God and trust that he will provide us the strength and ability to overcome the difficulties or trials we face.