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Stumbling blocks to spiritual growth

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At one point or another, we all come to the point in our lives where it feels that somehow we have reached a plateau where we have quit growing spiritually; for some, it even goes to the extent that it feels that God has left us.  I know in my own life, beginning when I accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal Savior, I have had to deal with numerous things (and some of them more than once) that have kept me from developing a richer and deeper relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.  As a Christian, the truest of our heart’s desire should be to become more Christ-like in our attitude and in the way we treat others.  The more we desire to become more like Him, the more temptations will follow us, the more hardships we will endure – and overcoming each will serve to strengthen our faith.

I was originally going to publish this as a single devotional but after sketching it out, I realized there was enough for a few posts.  I did not place them in any sort of order that may indicate importance nor is this meant to be a complete list of everything that can keep us from experiencing spiritual growth.  These are simply some things that I or others close to me have had to deal with that has kept them from enjoying true spiritual growth.

We attempt to return to our old lifestyle:

No Christian is immune from the pull of our old lifestyle. At some point, every Christian has to battle the pull of their past. This is not necessarily because we find it more exciting than what Christ calls us to, but because we have a tendency to return to what we know and are comfortable with.  As a Christian, a return to our old lifestyle will cause a division between ourselves and the Lord Jesus Christ. The apostle Paul wrote, But now, after that ye have known God, or rather are known of God, how turn ye again to the weak and beggarly elements, whereunto ye desire again to be in bondage (Galatians 4:9). Even Solomon, considered the wisest of all the ancient kings, understood the problems with the believer who returns to their old lifestyle, The backslider in heart shall be filled with his own ways: and a good man shall be satisfied from himself (Proverbs 14:14). Yes, a Christian with unrepented sin has a tendency to justify their sins, much like a lost person will do. Although still saved by the grace of God, our old lifestyle and the sins we are predisposed to will place us in a state of rebellion against God.

Being led by the Holy Spirit, the apostle Paul wrote, Now the just shall live by faith: but if any man draw back, my soul shall have no pleasure in him (Hebrews 10:38).  The apostle Peter also warns the follower of Christ to avoid the temptations and traps of returning to our old lifestyle: For if after they have escaped the pollutions of the world through the knowledge of the Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, they are again entangled therein, and overcome, the latter end is worse with them than the beginning. For it had been better for them not to have known the way of righteousness, than, after they have known it, to turn from the holy commandment delivered unto them. But it is happened unto them according to the true proverb, The dog is turned to his own vomit again; and the sow that was washed to her wallowing in the mire (II Peter 2:20-22). Oh, the wasted years of my life when I was young in the faith!

God makes a provision for us; If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (I John 1:9). Just as told in the story of the prodigal son; if we come to God, our heavenly Father and repent of our sins, He will forgive us and restore us into his fellowship.

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What happens when Christians forget

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They are located in every town and city in our nation.  We have all seen them and wondered what happened that would cause it to happen.  In my town of Henderson, Kentucky, a ride through the older neighborhoods contain a half-dozen churches that are now silent and cold.  No more does Amazing Grace ring from its sanctuary; no more do its members walk down the aisle to pray at the altar.  No more does the nursery hold the younger generation of church faithful; no longer does the church impact the community.

Within the Old Testament, the prophet Jeremiah wrote A voice was heard upon the high places, weeping and supplications of the children of Israel: for they have perverted their way, and they have forgotten the LORD their God (Jeremiah 3:21). After all that God had done for the children of Abraham, Jeremiah is bearing witness that they forgot God.  The prophet Ezra wrote Then stood up Jeshua the son of Jozadak, and his brethren the priests, and Zerubbabel the son of Shealtiel, and his brethren, and builded the altar of the God of Israel, to offer burnt offerings thereon, as it is written in the law of Moses the man of God. And they set the altar upon his bases; for fear was upon them because of the people of those countries: and they offered burnt offerings thereon unto the LORD, even burnt offerings morning and evening (Ezra 3:2-3). Not only did the children of Israel forget God but they also neglected to keep up the things that God had prescribed – which is why Ezra recorded that they had to “set the altar upon his bases” – essentially rebuilding the altar that had fallen down after years of neglect.

We read those scriptures and similar passages in the New Testament and wonder how God’s chosen people could allow such a thing to happen – how the altars were forgotten, neglected, and allowed to deteriorate.  We wonder what could3450741598_382a81c3e5_o have caused those of so long ago to forsake the teachings about the deliverance, goodness and grace of God and act with indifference when we find ourselves following the same path. Just as the altars of Israel had fallen in decay, there are churches across America that are in the same shape.  The question must be asked is why?  Why did this happen to the church?  Unfortunately all we have to do is to look what happened to those Old Testament lessons and we can see exactly why the church is in decay.

They forgot to teach their children about the things of God 

During the exodus out of Egypt, the Lord, through Moses, was trying to teach the children of Israel and the mixed multitude that accompanied them the importance of remembering the mighty work that God had done. According to the leading of the Holy Spirit, Moses wrote Only take heed to thyself, and keep thy soul diligently, lest thou forget the things which thine eyes have seen, and lest they depart from thy heart all the days of thy life: but teach them thy sons, and thy sons’ sons (Deuteronomy 4:9). Those that were brought out of Egypt had a divine obligation to teach their children and their grandchildren of the mighty works that God had done. Somehow, they even ignored the warnings given by God, Beware that thou forget not the LORD thy God, in not keeping his commandments, and his judgments, and his statutes, which I command thee this day (Deuteronomy 8:11) and continued to ignore the responsibilities to teach the younger generations.  Within a few generations, the nation of Israel found itself with its altars broken and God had left them to their own devices as He had warned: And it shall be, if thou do at all forget the LORD thy God, and walk after other gods, and serve them, and worship them, I testify against you this day that ye shall surely perish. As the nations which the LORD destroyeth before your face, so shall ye perish; because ye would not be obedient unto the voice of the LORD your God (Deuteronomy 8:19-20).

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A lesson in receiving forgiveness from others

reelfoot lakeIts easy to fall into one of the oldest traps used by Satan against the children of God – the trap of guilt.  We all have experienced it whether it be because of something wrong we have said or done to another, problems dealing with our besetting sins, or breaking a promise to others or God.  Guilt can be a good thing if it brings us to a point of true repentance, as written and described by the apostle Paul: For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death (II Corinthians 7:10).

Godly sorrow, or guilt, will not let us rest until we have not only asked forgiveness of the person we have wronged, but when we seek the forgiveness of God also.  There’s a familiar verse that I have heard ever since I first began going to church: Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him (Luke 17:3).  Instead of focusing on the person that was wronged, I want to look at the person that is considered as the “offender.” As Christians, when someone has told us that we have done something that has caused them to become offended, we have an obligation to seek genuine forgiveness.  As Christians, we represent the Lord Jesus Christ in all that we do; it should cause us to experience guilt – or godly sorrow – to know that something we have done has caused someone else become genuinely offended.

Within the same passage, the next verse simply states: And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him (Luke 17:4), we can learn several things from this one scripture – we have an obligation to seek forgiveness each time we do something we know offends another.  I once heard a preacher at a camp meeting in southeastern Texas say that too many Christians sin “retail” but want to seek forgiveness “wholesale” and unfortunately, often when we seek forgiveness of others, we have the same mentality.  This passage in Luke makes it clear – if I have offended someone three times, then I should seek their forgiveness three times; I cannot get by and have “godly sorrow” and forgiveness if I take short cuts. I must seek forgiveness for each time I have offended God or anyone else.  By seeking forgiveness for each time, it makes us more aware of our actions, of our responsibilities, and our need to rely on Christ Jesus for his guidance.

The apostle Paul wrote, To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also: for if I forgave any thing, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ (II Corinthians 2:10) and again, if we focus on the person being forgiven, once we have sought forgiveness with the person we have offended, and they have accepted our heartfelt apology, then we are indeed forgiven by them and should no longer feel guilt about what we did.  A couple of weeks ago, I was asked by a person about what I thought they should do because they were not sure if the person that “forgave” them did so because they truly accepted the apology or because they were just “going through the motions.”  This is something we all have experienced at some point in our lives – and if you haven’t, don’t worry, you eventually will.

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