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Lessons learned in an unexpected way

Don Sadler (1937-2013) with our daughter, Edith February 10, 2013

Don Sadler (1937-2013) with our daughter, Edith
February 10, 2013

This past Sunday evening (April 14, 2013), our church family held a memorial service for a dear friend and member of our family, Don Sadler. From November 2011 until March 22, 2013, he quickly became a cherished member of our church family. For those who didn’t know Don, he was just another old man fighting cancer with a set of peculiar habits.  For Michelle, our daughter, and me, he became a part of our family.

In 2006, when I became serious about my faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, I felt the strong desire to reach out to others in a manner that not only lifts them up, but where I can demonstrate and share the love that I feel from Christ in my own life.  There have been many times in my life, even after coming to know the Lord Jesus Christ as my personal savior, where I have felt abandoned by my fellow Christian and felt I had no earthly friend to turn to.  I decided then that if God ever blessed me with the means, I would do my very best to reach out to others; its an easy concept and one that our Lord and Savior calls us to do: Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee?  Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me (Matthew 25:44-45).

Ever since Michelle and I started talking about getting married in 2007, we both expressed a desire to use our home and love of the Lord Jesus Christ as a means to minister to the needs of others.  We never talked about specifics but knowing each other’s past – she is the daughter of two Salvation Army officers, Bruce and Vicki Stefanik, that are still active and when needed voluntarily serve as disaster assistance with the Salvation Army; and my past history of service in Scouting and as an interim pastor – we both possessed the ability and desire to serve others.  As a side note, as I am preparing this entry to post, the widget that imports the daily King James Version verse is indicating that today’s verse is Romans 13:8: Owe no man any thing, but to love one another: for he that loveth another hath fulfilled the law.   I cannot think of a more fitting verse to describe the relationship shared by our family and Don.

When Don first began coming to our church, we knew he did not have any family in the area and decided that we would open our home for Don and invite him over for Thanksgiving dinner.  Little did we know that the first Thanksgiving dinner we shared together would be the beginning of a relationship that not only taught us about ourselves, but taught us about ministering to the needs of others.  Don was a man that had a strong need to feel wanted and soon he would get that from our church family and from us.  As our pastor, Alan Ramsey, worked to make sure that Don had the means and transportation to attend church services and special events, Michelle and I had a much easier task – we simply opened our home and our time and allowed Don the opportunity to become a part of the family.

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A quiet witness and the unexpected harvest

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The first day of spring has always been regarded as a new beginning by many.  In the ancient civilizations that arose after the flood, springtime was the time for festivities to celebrate the end of winter, the beginning of planting season, and rituals to appease the various gods worshiped in hopes of gaining favor during the growing season.   For modern societies, we are no longer directly tied to the seasons unless we have agriculture-related or other seasonal jobs.  Many see the seasons as simply a cycle of life repeated each year without any regard to what our ancient forefathers once celebrated.

Each spring, Christians around the world celebrate Easter.  The community college where I teach is in an area of Kentucky that has a large Catholic population so one of the many signs of spring are the ashes on the foreheads of the faithful and dutiful Catholic student.  The week before spring break I had a student walk into the classroom a bit early and found me taking a moment to pray for the class.  Not only was I praying for the souls of the students, but I was praying that I would not only be effective in what I was teaching, but also be found as honoring to God as well.  The student quietly entered into the room, and after I had finished, she began asking questions about my faith.  As I answered what seemed like one question after another, she finally began to focus on the difference between my faith and the Catholic faith that she was accustomed to.

The one thing she wanted to talk about was my faith, which she could tell was inward based, unadvertised  and real versus the  outward appearance of the Catholic faith.  She commented on how some of her best friends claimed to be good Catholics, went to mass, but other than their claims and outside appearances, there were no differences between them and other students.  They wore the crucifixes, ashes, and if they remembered to pray at lunch, they did make the sign of the Cross.  Other than that, there was no difference; they cussed, smoked, made fun of those different or that were perceived as being weak. She then began contrasting what she had seen of her friends versus what she had seen from me in class: she had never seen me ridicule or belittle a student in front of the class; I had always maintained an attitude of wanting to help the student learn; I was genuinely concerned and wanted to help students; and, I took the time to listen to students when they came to me with problems or difficulties rather than ignoring them.

Until that moment I was unaware of how Christ had become evident in my life.  I began to wonder how many other college students I had come in contact with had also noticed what this student had noticed.  I was simply acting in a way I thought would be honoring to God: The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise (Psalms 51:17). As I mentioned in several posts, in 2004 I made a decision to literally study the word of God as intently as I was studying the information for my preliminary exams.

As a part of that and much later in 2007, I was determined to reach beyond myself and to focus on the lesson provided by Christ during his earthly ministry: Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me. Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink? When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee? Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee? And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me (Matthew 25:34-40).  Simply stated, I want to serve others as I would as if I knew I was personally serving the Lord Jesus Christ.

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Sharing our faith as intensely as we share our vacations

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During the spring and early summer months, our family loves to take an occasional weekend day-trip to a zoo, museum, state or national park, or other places of interest.  It has always amazed me how much money tourist destinations will spend creating spectacular landscaping scenery that not only inspires its visitors, but creates images in our minds that encourages us to share the stories of our destination “discoveries” with families and friends.  Many times, that’s the entire intent behind the monies spent to achieve such landscaping marvels, whether they be inside or outside.  The hope is for an increased visits by others who have become inspired by our pictures and testimony – the telling of our experiences.

Its not only tourist destinations that rely on the testimonies of its visitors as a source for future customers.  Websites such as Angie’s List are dedicated to providing testimonials written by customers regarding local businesses.  Ebay asks those who buy and sell to rate each transaction as a way to provide others with an understanding of the reputation of the buyer or seller with whom they are doing business.  We share stories of our children, our grandchildren, and even our pets with others without any reservations, yet when it comes to sharing what could possibly make the difference in the eternal condition of someone’s soul, we grow strangely quiet.

Sharing our testimony of our personal relationship with Jesus is something that began back in those early days of the church. As Jesus prepared his disciples for his final ascension into Heaven, he appeared unto the eleven as they sat at meat, and upbraided them with their unbelief and hardness of heart, because they believed not them which had seen him after he was risen. And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature (Mark 16:14-15).  He told the remaining eleven apostles that it was their responsibility to teach – to provide a testimonial – of Christ’s message of Salvation.  These men had not yet been moved into pastoral roles of the early New Testament Church, had not been called as missionaries to far away lands, or called to be song or worship leaders.  Everything they had been taught, everything they had witnessed, and everything they had experienced while travelling with Jesus was  what they were to share with others!

One of my favorite stories in the New Testament is the story of the woman at the well.  Jesus offered her living water – true life – and all she had to do was to accept and believe that he was the Messiah  – her Redeemer that had been promised since the days of Adam and Eve. Although she was a Samaritan, she still knew the prophecies of the One that would redeem Israel, that would heal, forgive sins, set the captives free, and all – Jew, Gentile, and Samaritan would be allowed to worship God in Jerusalem.  Jesus began to teach her Woman, believe me, the hour cometh, when ye shall neither in this mountain, nor yet at Jerusalem, worship the Father… But the hour cometh, and now is, when the true worshippers shall worship the Father in spirit and in truth: for the Father seeketh such to worship him. God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truthThe woman saith unto him, I know that Messias cometh, which is called Christ: when he is come, he will tell us all things. Jesus saith unto her, I that speak unto thee am he (John 4:21-26).

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