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Having compassion that makes a difference

bible1Having compassion is an important part of our daily walk with Jesus. All it takes is a look around our society to notice the lack of genuine compassion. But what is compassion? How can we be a compassionate people when we do not even know the real meaning of the word? Compassion, according to the Miriam Webster’s Dictionary is a  sympathetic consciousness of others’ distress together with a desire to alleviate it. In the book of Jude, the Holy Spirit led the author to write, And of some have compassion, making a difference: And others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire; hating even the garment spotted by the flesh (Jude 22-23). There is nothing more compassionate within the Christian faith than sharing the gospel of Jesus with those who are lost.

Having compassion without notice of men

True biblical compassion is not driven by a wish to be recognized or rewarded by others. Even in Jesus’ day there were those who were willing to show great compassion on others as long as they believed someone would notice their efforts. Jesus spoke openly to his disciples and all who were around listening:  Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven. Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward (Matthew 6:1-2). Just what is the reward of those whose compassion is solely driven by their love of the Lord? Jesus taught on this very topic and used this example: Then said he also to him that bade him, When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends, nor thy brethren, neither thy kinsmen, nor thy rich neighbours; lest they also bid thee again, and a recompence be made thee. But when thou makest a feast, call the poor, the maimed, the lame, the blind: And thou shalt be blessed; for they cannot recompense thee: for thou shalt be recompensed at the resurrection of the just (Luke 14:12-14).

What Jesus is teaching here is that our compassion should not be limited to those who could do something for us in return. This is not true compassion as in the biblical sense. Jesus tells us to focus our compassion on those who don’t have the ability to do anything for us. Jesus tells us that our rewards will not come now, but will happen when we arrive in Heaven. If our having compassion was driven by our love for Jesus and for our fellow-man as a creation of God, then our reward will be reflective of the pureness of our hearts: For the Son of man shall come in the glory of his Father with his angels; and then he shall reward every man according to his works (Matthew 16:27) and I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings (Jeremiah 17:10). No matter what we may say to others what our motivation for demonstrating compassion may be, the Lord knows the real intent of our efforts.

Having compassion that will be acceptable to the Lord

Modern society has a dangerous, unhealthy, and unbiblical understanding of what compassion is. Biblical compassion is simply not writing a check and sending money to whatever charity is being promoted at the time. Television and the Internet are full of promotions by various stars and other famous people asking for financial contributions ranging from animal care to orphaned children in faraway lands. While it is noble to want to help, the scriptures are very clear where the demonstration of our having compassion must start: But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel (1 Timothy 5:8) and As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith (Galatians 6:10). Additionally, if we include the order specified for the sharing and spreading of the gospel, Jesus told the crowd of believers: And he said unto them, It is not for you to know the times or the seasons, which the Father hath put in his own power. But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth (Acts 1:7-8).


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Christmas and the true gift of the season

christmasChristmas is the time of year that brings out the best and the worst in people. As I’ve shared before, I didn’t grow up in a Christian household; Christmas was the day where we opened presents and ate a lot of food. Growing up, I never understood what drove people to spend lots of money and time buying gifts of all sorts and sizes. Just this last week I read an article that said most Americans are spending between $400 to $800 in gifts, mostly on credit, for this Christmas. The same article stated that most Americans will be paying on Christmas gifts until September of next year.

Many of the local stores where I live began their Christmas decorating season in October; by the day after Thanksgiving, celebrated as Black Friday, items of all shapes and sizes went on sale in anticipation of Christmas wish lists. In many of the stores, this past Monday witnessed a change in displays that now promote Valentine’s Day items. Earlier this week I decided to share with the readers of this blog what I think has been missing from Christmas for some time.

Christmas with sincerity

Within the gospel of Matthew Jesus told his disciples, But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil (Matthew 5:37). The apostle James wrote, A double minded man is unstable in all his ways (James 1:8) and the apostle Paul wrote, That ye may approve things that are excellent; that ye may be sincere and without offence till the day of Christ (Philippians 1:10). Paul also wrote to the Christians in Corinth, Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth (1 Corinthians 5:8). As Christians, we are urged to be sincere in everything that we do but there are times when even the strongest in the faith will simply go through the motions at this time of the year. If Christians cannot find something wonderful – the celebration and observation of the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, then how can we expect those who are lost to understand the importance of this day?

I do understand how easy it is to become distracted by the demands of what we have come to know as Christmas. The demands for the perfect gift, for the perfect holiday meal, and even the perfect Christmas cards to lists of people we believe will expect a card from us have come to replace the true meaning of this special day. In fact, for a while, I simply went through the motions of Christmas; for all outward appearances I was simply doing what was expected. However, the Lord knew my heart and knew that instead of being sincere, everything I was doing for Christmas was a façade. What I was doing was not a reflection of what was in my heart. This is not bringing honor or demonstrating our reverence towards Christ but towards the expectations of mankind. James wrote, Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded (James 4:8) in testimony of how God truly wants us to be honest with ourselves, with Him, and with those around us. He also promises that if we strive to be closer to Him that He will meet us.

Christmas with the love of Christ

We’ve all heard that song, Mary, did you know? and it has gotten to the point that it is one of my least favorite Christmas songs. For Mary to be favored among all women, I am pretty sure that when the angel told her who she was carrying in her womb, she knew from the teachings from the Old Testament prophets she bore the Messiah, the Redeemer of all mankind. Now with that out of the way, knowing what He would endure in His life, He still was born according to His Father’s will. As an infant, laying in the manger that night, He knew He would teach and demonstrate Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends (John 15:13). When we look at the world around us with its humanist messages, the pain and sickness, the loneliness, we see a world that is in need of the love of Christ. The apostle Paul wrote, That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love (Ephesians 3:17) as a testimony that as Christians, we need to be grounded in the love of Christ. This means we need to be ready to demonstrate Christ’s love toward ourselves in everything we do for others. We must love without the expectation of anything in return. And our Christmas giving must be modeled after God’s greatest gift to us – a sacrificial giving without counting the cost.

Christmas must return to being Christ-centered

This seems like an obvious observation. However, as simple as it is this truth is, it is often overlooked. All it takes is to flip through the many new television Christmas specials and it becomes painfully obvious how the celebration of the birth of Jesus is being relegated to an event of little to no importance (and yes, I do know that Jesus was most likely not born on December 25th, but that is NOT the purpose of this particular post). Even the Hallmark Channel has chosen to incorporate themes of budding romances, family, and “Christmas” miracles in their newer movies but leave out the miracle of the Virgin birth. As I was watching television last night, I saw advertisements for various Christmas programming that brought this verse to my mind: No man can serve two masters: for either he will hate the one, and love the other; or else he will hold to the one, and despise the other. Ye cannot serve God and mammon (Matthew 6:24). For me, it boils down to this – if I say I am going to celebrate Christmas for the sake of worshiping and honoring Jesus’ birth, then He needs to be the center of that worship. As I think of that first Christmas, when God gave the world His Son, as a lowly infant born in a manger, God sent the very best He had. God gave Jesus to pay for our sins out of the depths of His love for mankind. In fact, even Jesus reminded us of this during the conversation with Nicodemus: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved (John 3:16-17).

It isn’t about the presents under the tree or how much the Christmas meal is going to cost. It is about gathering with family and friends to celebrate, to honor, and to worship our Lord and Savior, Jesus, at the time we have set aside to honor His birth. Anything beyond our worshiping and honoring of Him simply distracts from the spirit of this holy day.

Are you going through the motions this Christmas and you know your efforts aren’t sincere? Refocus your mind and heart on Jesus. Let everything you do be out of your love of Jesus and not because others expect you to do them. God sent His Son to mankind not because it was expected but because He loved us that much. Make a conscious effort to draw the attentions of this Christmas season to Him in all that you do and if you’re like me, this will bring back the joys of Christmas and the celebration of Christ’s birth.

From my house and family to yours, have a Merry Christmas and remember that Jesus is the reason for this special season.

The parable of the sower: a different lesson

parable sowerWe’ve all heard sermons, Bible studies, devotionals, and Sunday school lessons that focus on the parable of the sower. This important teaching of Jesus is recorded in the gospel of Matthew: And he spake many things unto them in parables, saying, Behold, a sower went forth to sow;  And when he sowed, some seeds fell by the way side, and the fowls came and devoured them up: Some fell upon stony places, where they had not much earth: and forthwith they sprung up, because they had no deepness of earth: And when the sun was up, they were scorched; and because they had no root, they withered away. And some fell among thorns; and the thorns sprung up, and choked them:  But other fell into good ground, and brought forth fruit, some an hundredfold, some sixtyfold, some thirtyfold. Who hath ears to hear, let him hear (Matthew 13:3-9). Instead of focusing on the seed and its fate, the focus of this post will be on the sower.

With the way that Jesus presents this parable, there are several lessons we can learn about the sower even though the only true reference specifically about the sower is found in the first two verses of the passage: And he spake many things unto them in parables, saying, Behold, a sower went forth to sow; And when he sowed, some seeds fell by the way side, and the fowls came and devoured them up (Matthew 13:3-4). These verses contain only a very basic description of the sower – all we know is that the sower is a man. It is not because Jesus didn’t think that women were not capable of sowing wheat, but that Jesus was using a common image – something that everyone who was hearing that day had at some time either had done themselves or had seen. But other than that, there is no more facts or observations given about the sower other than what was given here.

The object of the parable  – the sower – is…us!

This morning, as I did my personal Bible reading, something about this passage really jumped off the page. Think about what Jesus told the disciples before he ascended into Heaven: Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen (Matthew 28:19-20). The gospel of Mark records the same event: And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature. He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned (Mark 16:15-16). Just as Jesus had commanded the disciples to spread the gospel, we, too are given the commission to spread the gospel. We are to become sowers of the gospel seed to the extent the parable He used presented the role of the sower. If we are truly objective about the information we are given about the sower, we understand he was out in the fields sowing with a purpose. Jesus gave us that purpose; Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him (John 14:23). We provide a demonstration of our willful obedience when we share the gospel message with others.

The parable: the sower was indiscriminate about the sowing

One of the many lessons about the sower in this passage is that the sower was indiscriminate – he did not make any judgment – about his sowing. He didn’t stop to determine the soil type but just kept sowing the seeds he had. If we stop and ponder this aspect of the parable, what Jesus is teaching is that we have an obligation to sow the seeds of the gospel message of Jesus without giving any consideration of the soil – the person to whom we are sharing the message of salvation. Too many times we allow ourselves to be moved by the flesh, by our own judgment. Although we may feel the Holy Spirit leading us to share the gospel with someone, often we won’t because we are trying to figure out the type of soil their heart is made of. I’ve done this; I am sure if you are honest with yourself, you’ve probably done this too. David was led by the Holy Spirit to write, Shall not God search this out? for he knoweth the secrets of the heart (Psalms 44:21) and also in the writings of Samuel: But the LORD said unto Samuel, Look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature; because I have refused him: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart (1 Samuel 16:7). God sees and judges by the heart because we base our judgment on appearance.

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