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Rooted, growing, and established in the faith

As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him: Rooted and built up in him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving. Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ (Colossians 2:6-8).

Ask anyone around where our apartment is, where my wife or I work, or even our church:  I love plants.  Each spring, I enjoy the thrill of re-potting the houseplants before bringing them outside for the season.  I enjoy picking out new plants for the window boxes and pots that I keep in front of our apartment.  In the early spring and in the last few weeks of fall, I even give away cuttings to friends and neighbors.  There are a few things that this hobby has taught me that not only apply to plant care, but also about life and my walk with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Before I give any plants away, the cuttings must be prepared.  They must be trimmed, potted, take root, and have new growth before I give them to anyone.  Nothing would hurt my reputation more than to give someone a small plant than to have that plant die a few days after I gave it to them.  Right now, we have a few cuttings that we are preparing to give away – but the sure-sign they are well rooted is new growth.  I believe that this concept of being “well rooted and growing” is very similar to Paul’s rooted and built up in him instructions he wrote for the church at Colossus and Christians everywhere.

As the cuttings take root they begin to sprout new growth.  Depending on the type of plant, this can be new leaves, new stems, or even blooms – each is an indication that the cutting has taken root in the soil and is now, in the words of Paul, building up – becoming bigger and stronger than what it was when it was originally planted.  As Christians, we are supposed to do the same thing – we are supposed to allow our faith to take root and grow.  Just as a cutting needs sunlight, potting soil, dirt, and a container to grow in, Christians need to read and study their Bible (II Timothy 2:15), attend church services (Hebrews 10:25), prayer for ourselves, our families, and friends (Philippians 4:6, James 5:15-16), and to learn from elder Christians (Titus 4:2-10).  Too many Christians, once they have accepted Jesus as their savior, think that their commitment to their Lord and Savior does not extend beyond that.  This is why there are many Christians that are weak in their spiritual walk; instead of growing in their faith, they return to living like they did before they accepted Jesus Christ as their savior.

WhileI was attending graduate school at Southern Illinois University, I had a neighbor in graduate housing that claimed to be a Christian.  In several conversations we had discussing the role of faith, religion, and academic study, he told me that he had come to the realization that there was no way that most of the Bible was accurate.  He said that from a scholarly point of view, the Judeo-Christian view of marriage, homosexuality, origins of life, and stories of Noah’s ark were all tools designed to control the minds and fears of crowds.  He further stated that he believed in what he referred to as “liberation Christianity” where there were no absolutes and all that mattered was not your relationship with God but how you treated your fellow man.  This thinking is what the apostle Paul warned about in his letter to the church at Colossus Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ (Colossians 2:8).  Unfortunately, this man had not known enough of the basics of the teachings of Christ to withstand the false teaching prevalent in the academic world.

Right now in the windowsill of our family’s kitchen, I have two glasses that contains cuttings from plants.  My daughter, who just had her second birthday, loves for me to lift her up so she can look at the plants and the cuttings.  This morning, she noticed the roots that are beginning to appear on the stems of the cuttings of Swedish Ivy, exclaiming “whoa, that?” and then repeating “woots!” after I told her what they were.  As long as I remember this morning’s lesson, of the importance of teaching her about the things of God now while she is young, when she does make the decision to trust in Jesus Christ as her savior, she will not only have a strong foundation to build upon, but will have the ability to look back at the simple lessons taught through our shared enjoyment of caring for houseplants.

Preparing the path of a young person

Son of man, I have made thee a watchman unto the house of Israel: therefore hear the word at my mouth, and give them warning from me (Ezekiel 3:17).

I am not in any way comparing myself or my spiritual calling to that of the Old Testament prophet Ezekiel.  And as a further observation, I am far from the perfect parent; I have made my share of mistakes as a father and as a Christian.  With that said, a combination of my own life experiences while growing up and the past nine years as an adjunct at various community colleges and four-year universities has let me to understand how important it is that Christian parents “get it right” when preparing their children for adulthood.

Earlier this morning I was checking my email and found that a former student of mine had sent an email asking me for some academic and personal advice.  As an adjunct, I cannot formally advise students about their academic career but do offer advice on how to make the most of even the most difficult class.  As far as the personal advice, I do offer it with the understanding that I am coming from a Christian perspective and for the most part, when I tell a student that, it opens the door for them to ask more questions about my faith.  Almost all the students that ask me either for personal advice or to discuss issues of faith were not prepared by their parents to face adulthood; some come from homes a lot like what I grew up in while others come from what they described as a “Christian” home.

One of the most important things that parents do for their children is to Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it, as written by Solomon (Proverbs 22:6).  Nearly ten years ago and while attending a church revival meeting at a small country Baptist church in southeastern Missouri, I heard a preacher twho opened my eyes to the extent it has changed forever my understanding of this verse.  he discussed how parents have given this responsibility – without any reservation – to the lost world!  Unfortunately, he is right.

As Solomon put it, training up a child is about preparing the child for adulthood. It is about teaching them to not only how to work and to be productive, but know themselves, know their relationship with God, and to understand their relationship with others.  Yes, traditional education, which is geared for  productivity and work has been yielded to public institutions to the extent that a majority of parents no longer feel obligated to have an active role in preparing their child for adulthood.  No longer are parents teaching their children a work ethic, occupational skills, religious teachings, or even reaffirmation of academic teachings – it has all been left to the realm of “public education.”

We see the results of this after nearly thirty years of abandonment of this important parental responsibility.  We have families that no longer resemble what God had planned, one in two marriages ending in divorce and children in homes with one parent or even  being raised by grandparents, churches across our nation closing their doors for the last time, and souls not being reached for Jesus.  I can tell you that although many of my 18 to 25 year old college students have been raised in a spiritual vacuum, a few are asking questions about God, faith, and how to fit the belief in God into a “science driven” world.  Yes, there are a few who are hungry to learn about God so they can be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you [them] a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear (I Peter 3:15).

Off the cuff: a scriptural lesson from the kitchen

After being inspired by several television shows that my wife and I watch on the Food Network, I have really begun to sharpen my kitchen skills.  Having watched shows such as Chopped!Restaurant Impossible, and Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives, I have begun to pull cookbooks off the shelf and give new recipes a try.  It has been enjoyable but what amazes me is the small scriptural lessons that I’ve learned from this latest endeavor.

We all know the story in Jeremiah about the visit to the potter’s house.  Jeremiah watched as the potter worked the clay.  If the potter was happy with the results, the pot was baked in a kiln.  If the potter noticed a flaw or some potential problem with the pot, he would start over.  Well, there have been a few of these lessons that I’ve learned while trying new recipes and cooking techniques.  One lesson in particular that comes to mind is one that can be tied to Proverbs 20:23 Divers weights are an abomination unto the Lord; and a false balance is not good.

Michelle and I have two sets of dry measuring cups.  We have one set that is made of green plastic and a set that’s made of a heavier, more rubbery, black plastic.  While both sets look identical when it comes to measuring dry ingredients, they actually aren’t.  Last week, I did an experiment where I took a glass bowl and a postage meter and weighed half a cup of white corn meal using the two different sets of dry measuring cups.  The weights should have been the same with, at most, a quarter-ounce difference.  What I found truly amazed me – the green measuring cup did not hold as much of the white corn meal by narly a third of an ounce!

While I am not a professional chef by any stretch of the imagination, I have quickly come to appreciate the importance of having accurate measuring cups.  Anyone who enjoys cooking knows the importance of having accurate wet and dry measuring cups and spoons.  You must be able to know that you are putting in the exact amount needed – nothing more or nothing less – than what the recipe calls for.  There are some recipes where “close enough” does not quite reach the mark and where just the slightest variance in measurement can make the difference in a meal that really is wonderful or that ends in near-disaster.   The same can be said about how we view ourselves and how we view others.

Although I have already posted a few entries about the importance of not judging others, it is a topic that I honestly feel that needs to be continually evaluated in our daily life.  I have been on the receiving end of what I had explained to me by a church member of “wholesome and meaningful judgment” as well as judging others using my own set of standards.  In a sense, at some time in our lives, we all will experience both roles as the judge and as the judged.